Thursday, June 28, 2012

Amber Not Allowed to See Leah

At least not for a few weeks. According to hollywoodlife Amber is about to go through an evaluation process to determine her permanent  placement in the facility. During that time Amber can't have any visitors but she can make outgoing phone calls. 

Her overall health (including her mental health) will be evaluated and she will be placed in one of 3 correctional facilities. I'm hoping that her mental instability is recognized and that they place her in a facility that will help her with this. 

I'm not a prison expert and I don't know much about it but I do know that there are facilities for inmates that are more like mental hospitals than prisons. Honestly I think that is where she should be. Perhaps she can really get the help that she needs to not only be sober but to get her emotions and anger under control.


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  1. Gary Was not very nice to her when he went to see her when she was in Rehab, and Amber walked away he should have been more supportive instead of bringing up old stuff..I hope when she comes home from Prison she leaves him and his teenage antics!!!!! He pushes her pushes too much

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    1. Agreed!! So many episodes Gary made me so frustrated, I felt for her!

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    2. GARY acted inapproprately?! How about Amber? she showed her true colors to the psycologist, the look on his face confirmed it! Gary was doing what you do at a couples therapy session, and she was shutting it down because the truth hurts.

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    3. The point of counseling..... is to do exactly that, bring up old stuff. Gary was telling his feelings and Amber couldn't handle it, that is HER PROBLEM. Deal with the insecurities you have and when your so called "boyfriend" is telling you how he feels, listen and change those problems that you have. So no, I do NOT agree with either comments here. If you have ever been to couples counseling you would know that you have to bring up the past in order to understand the feelings of each other and why they are acting and treating each other the way they are. They are both in the wrong, but more so Amber than Gary. He is trying to deal with her bipolar, and let me tell you. It is so very hard to deal with someone with that disorder, you never know when they are going to snap! She needs help, not only for her, but for her daughter, Leah. I honestly don't believe that prison was the best way to go, but if you remember correctly that was Amber's choice. She could not handle the rehab so she chose prison.

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    4. I think Gary is the least of Amber's problems. She is a nut case. I just watch her and she disgusts me. As a mother and as a girlfriend. Shit if I were Gary I would of NEVER even made that trip to cally to see her. I would of let her rot. She is an idiot. I feel no sympathy for people who bring things on themselves. She choses to be the way she is. I don't care what kind of upbringing she had or what her child hood was like. When does the cycle end. Poor Leah is probably going to end up just like this if she continues to be around Amber. It just burns me up inside. Im not trying to attack anyone. I just hate reading "Oh Gary Poked at her and made her like that." How do expect someone to cope in society if she can't handle minor issues like that......

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    5. I agree, when u go to therapy you talk about how you got to where you are and that means talking about the past... amber doesn't like to hear about things in the past. I get that, but to help yourself and your supposed relationship, you talk about everything in order to understand what went wrong, and whatnot. Neither is perfect, no one says gary is an angel. But he is more together than amber is unfortunately and he knows that... while he should not say some things, he does. That's who he is. Amber jus really needs to learn how to control her anger, its not jus towards gary at all. One day I hope she gets better, understands what has gone wrong and tries to make it better or fix it.. Leah will want to know her mom some day and I hope amber is at a stable place in her life when that happens. (Know her more than she does now of course because she will be older and start to understand partially of what is going on).

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    6. @Megan Ensel: Okay you must not know a thing about mental disorders. Saying that she disgusts you, disgusts me really because she is a human being and people with mental disorders do not "bring it upon themselves". She does not choose to be the way she is. That is why she went to rehab and therapy and is taking medication to help her with her condition, and sometimes it takes a long time to get the right kind of therapy and medication combination to make that person behave more normally. I have a brother with a worse condition than her and trust me, its not easy for them or anyone involved. Leah may end up with her issues GENETICALLY but her upbringing could trigger it worse just as Amber's upbringing and life has triggered her mental disorder worse. You should not bash things you don't understand, and support her and hope that she gets better for her daughter. I think if she gets the right support and therapy and medication combination she could have an amazing life. I do think Gary and her need to separate to be happy and there is nothing wrong with that. Show some compassion people, we all make mistakes and are human beings. I was a teen mom too.

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  2. I think that until Amber gets her stuff together she shouldn't see Leah. It's not good for her or Leah! Gary and Amber are two people that need to go their separate ways for good. They both bring out the worst in each other. The sad thing is their vicious cycle continues and it's Leah that's in the middle of it all. Amber is just as much to blame as Gary is. I know that when you have been cheated on it's painful and it sounds like they both choose to live in the past. They need a fresh start with new people and maybe they can have healthy relationships with other people.

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  3. Everyone is blaming gary when amber is the one who didn't finish her rehab and asked to be put back in jail while gary is home raising his daughter. Amber definatly has some mental issues and the fact is that she invited gary that weekend to discuss their issues and as soon as he started to say something she started cursing like a trucker and stormed off...only to return and ask gary to go steady. Gary is definately no angel but he's the one taking care of leah doing the right thing and she couldn't even finish her rehab so she could see her own child!!!!

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    1. Amber just has a bad attitude, and she needs to Learn how to handle herself and not get fustrated so easily. Leah needs her mother at her best not at her worst! And right now amber is at her worst, so Leah is better off with Gary! But I hope Amber gets the help she needs!

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  4. 'than' deals with comparisons. 'then' deals with progression of time.

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    1. Oh get over yourself Anonymous person. I always type the two wrong even though I'm not a complete moron and I do understand the difference. I think for an amateur writer I'm doing pretty damn well.

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    2. You're doing FANTASTIC Jamie, 'Anonymous' person's comment and all others of similar content can be chalked up to the 'small stuff' that we aren't supposed to sweat!
      You go girl, you've got this!!

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  5. those jeans do not fit.

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    1. Hahaha! Sad but I was thinking the same thing.

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  6. She is a woman who clearly loves her daughter. I agree that Amber and Gary should not be together. Lets just hope she gets better while in prison and that little Leah doesnt turn out like her mother.

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    1. What exactly gives you the impression that "she clearly loves her daughter?!" was it watching her try and kick her baby's father down the stairs? Or maybe it was when she decided to go to JAIL for 5 YEARS over a 90 day rehab program? Was it when you saw her let Leah cry herself to sleep on a bed with no sheets because Amber "didn't want to deal with it."

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  7. Ok dumb random jean comment...

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  8. Fuck Gary. I agree amber needs help buttttttttt Gary is an instigator and even annoys me watching him annoy amber!! Team LEAH. And who fuvking cares if her jeans fit are you her? No so focus on what you look like thousands of pics taken of you and chances are you'd have one bad shot too so shut the fuck up like u guys are so damn perfect. This is why

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  9. Gary just went on a totally immature twitter rant about people commenting about how fat he is. He even claims, "Gary Shirley‏@ItsGaryTime

    I go to dr.s completely healthy low colesterol n all. Just big muscles. Seriously
    "

    UMMM, NO. Big muscles? In your cheeks? All the better to chew your food with, my dear...

    The belly does not lie. I mean, I know what abs look like, and what he has is NOT muscle. He did admit after that he 'carries extra'.

    Another highlight is when he brags about still being able to get pussy, "Gary Shirley‏@ItsGaryTime

    I still get Pu$&y so f$$k doing something right.
    "

    Ummmm.. I have seen Amber, and she is no fricken prize, and anyone that would let Gary get near them is a little icky anyways. Especially because he is always talking about how he is single etc.

    So he is using the girls for sex, and they are using him as well (as long as it is consentual I don't care - i just think it is gross!).

    There is nothing wrong with being overweight, but Gary is gross. It isn't just his weight, it is who he is as a person. The guy is just so immature!

    I just wish he would agree to let Leah be adopted by a family that could provide for her. I mean, he could totally still have contact etc - she would just have a much, much better environment and better opportunities.

    Poor Leah. Could you imagine what she would think if she read what Gary wrote? I wonder if she is embarrassed to be seen with him yet? Or if he can truly play with her, or unable to due to his lack of health?

    I wish we could force people to get sterilized and to give up their children.

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  10. Gary is an idiot. He was also bragging about being drunk.

    And his abusive step dad (which is maybe why he sticks with Amber).

    Is Evan even still his friend, really?

    BTW - if Gary was happy he would not be that fat.

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    1. i agree that he is way too overweight, but i don't understand the "if Gary was happy we would not be that fat." so if you're happy then you're not allowed to be fat? or if you're fat then you can't be happy? lol doesn't make sense to me.

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    2. Gary is an emotional eater - IMO. He eats so his body produces the "feel good and satisfied" hormones. It is like a drug addiction... It is self-soothing with food.

      Basically, he eats when he is upset as a coping mechanism.

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  11. In the end, all of this is documented on TV. Leah will see all of this for herself when she is old enough to understand.. The only ones that will be having to answer to anybody will be Amber and Gary when Leah is old enough to speak up.

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    1. V.Lo - very true.

      The internet also lives forever, and people will also tell her all sorts of things...

      So I have no doubt that Leah will know more than she should about her parents mistakes. (SAD).

      I think she will also know (through archieves etc) that many, many people had wished she had been adopted instead of raised in that environment. I wonder how she will feel about that?

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  12. I don't like amber at all. I honestly believe she does a lot of it just so she looks that way on tv. Half the time she's talking slow and looking like she has no emotion. I think it's all an act. not to be rude.

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    1. I have noticed her kind of looking towards the camera, exactly what your not supposed to do on reality tv. Makes me think she has scripted some of the crap that comes out of her mouth herself, almost practiced at some points.

      I also once noticed a clip when she was in the apartment that she hit Gary at, he had come by to get Leah and Leah was in her crib crying and Amber looked comatose and or totally self medicated as she says. How are you a good mother when your daughter is in the other room screaming for your attention and all you can do is be in the other room complaining to the father of the child about how she has been crying all day. I think that clip was a true glance into the real life of Amber as a mother.

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  13. Omg don't get me started on this Bitch!!!!!! I hate this Cunt with a passion. poor gary spills his heart out to her and she treats him like shit. Just cus this bitch loses weight dont mean your the shit cus your was a Fat Bitch before!!!! I hope Gary moves on and finds someone that will appreciate him.....

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