Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Jenelle Didn't Know her Son Had Surgery

Jenelle has started writing a personal blog on her website, her most recent post had some shocking news. Apparently Jace had surgery on Sunday and no one told her. She doesn't say what he had surgery for but the blog entry suggests that he is fine. Jenelle can't spend any time with him until Friday. 

I'm not sure if Jenelle knew he was going to have surgery and just didn't know when or if she was completely out of of the loop. It's surprising to me that Barbara wouldn't tell her... or maybe she couldn't get a hold of Jenelle? We don't know the whole story but according to Jenelle she wasn't aware and is really upset. She writes: "If something went wrong during the surgery I wouldn't have been there..."


She talks about the fact that her mother wont give back custody and she can't understand why. 
"I go to school, work 3 jobs online at home, took volunteer parenting classes, completed 12 months probation and was sober for 8 months of that period, AND took anger management classes. Also I've been seeing my psychiatrist regularly and taking my medication for my bi-polar disorder as prescribed. I don't know... I'm very furious and frustrated but I guess I'll have to wait until my expungement goes through for my criminal record and then I'll be able to fight for custody."

The fact that she said she was sober for 8 months of her probation and not "I'm completely sober and have been since August of last year." leads me to believe that she is back to smoking again. -_-

Jenelle still has so much to learn about being a responsible adult. She has moved more times than I can count just this year alone, she has been back and forth with guys this year (which means they are in and out of Jace's life too) and she hasn't been able to hold a job outside of her home or stay away from serious drama that could hurt Jace. 

36 comments:

  1. On the plus side though....shes at least trying AND shes doing a lot better than another one of the teen moms...she may be in and out of relationships but at least shes not IN jail....atm.

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    1. Sooo, you are giving her props because she is better than Amber? And because she is not currently in JAIL? (Wow... High praise? Or low standards?).

      Who knows if Jenelle can even keep out of jail. She has a history of unstable behavior, and if she has a misunderstanding with Keiffer, or if someone comes to her house to 'take revenge' (ie Twitter comments) etc... You think that is a safe/healthy environment for Jace?

      The sad part for me is that Jenelle is still trying to get Jace back. She actually thinks it is a good idea. SO sad.

      On her blog she says, "Everyone always claims I don't try hard enough when it comes to me spending time with Jace, you're wrong! I just called her this morning 8 times before she actually answered and she said that Jace had a surgery yesterday "...

      So we know that at least one full day went by without any contact what so ever. But when DID Jenelle try and contact Jace last? Saturday? Friday? Thursday?

      Just because Jenelle made 8 attempts (according to her, but she often seems to misrepresent the truth) in one day, it means she is trying hard and is making all this effort, and it is Barbara's fault she is not in the loop?

      Maybe she did not know about the surgery because she had not been in touch.

      Maybe Jenelle sees Jace when she 'needs' to (for herself).

      To the commenter above - she may be 'trying', but that does not a good mom make. And being in and out of relationships can be VERY damaging to a young child, it can cause all kinds of long term damage.

      Jenelle should do what is best for Jace, and realise that she is not fit to parent.

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    2. Everyone should be able to have the chance to right their wrongs.. Just because she has messed up in the past, doesn't mean she should just back off and let someone else raise her son. She should work towards bettering herself FOR Jace. And be the parent that she needs to be for her son.. Not be told to basically let it go..

      And FYI, a parent can only TRY to be a good parent... Doesn't mean they will or won't, but the children still deserve that chance... UNLESS it involves abuse in ANY way shape or form! There are a lot worse parents out there then Jenelle... JUST because HER life is put on TV and in the spot light, doesn't mean anything.. There are recent news articles about MOTHERS leaving their child in a carseat on the roof of a car while they drive off and "forgetting" about the child being there... Or how about the 16-year-old "Mom" that left her children in a hot car while she went shopping, and THOSE kids were hot to the touch... There are also "moms" in my area that blow weed smoke into their children's faces to "calm them down" ... Or what about the photo of the young mom holding her child with a bong to the BABIES face? Yea GREAT parenting.. But Jenelle is frowned upon?

      So please, tell me, how is Jenelle a bad mom, because everyone knows about what she does and she is always bashed etc... There are a lot worse "parents" out there...

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    3. ^

      There may be worse parents out there but we aren't discussing them. We are discussing Jenelle and her lack of parenting. We have been hearing since babs took Jace that she is going to get him back. I honestly believe she shouldn't even try. He's happy where he is and she comes in and out of his life when she pleases.

      If she really cared for Jace, she would of had him back by now. Enough said

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  2. give her a break, being a teen mom is fucking hard. these other moms on teen mom make it look easy because they get all the help in the world, janelle is the only one reality of this show. some people dont have parents that willl babysit everyday, or a baby daddy who is actually a good one. infact Ryan is an amazing father, Gary is an amazing father, while in all reality Janelles Baby daddy is actually how shit usually works out, try filming people who have it exremly hard, unless the media wants to make it look easy so that more children have kids.

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    1. No one said it's easy. She makes bad choices. Period. Her mom not only watches Jace EVERYDAY, she has custody, what are you talking ablout? And Kailyn doesn't have famile either, and she's doing it right.

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    2. The only reality about Janelle is that she is an unfit parent. Period. If she does indeed regain custody of Jace, it will be a huge mistake by the court and that little boy will end up exactly like her. She may not have a strong support system but Jace does. There is NO excuse.

      And in what world is Ryan an amazing father?!?!? Being in your child's life because your parents push you to means nothing. He is worthless.

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    3. Yeah its hard but it still isnt an excuse for how she acts. I dont have my mom(passed away) or my dad (deadbeat) for support but I still manage to get by and raise my son yes I am lucky his father and I are together but it wasnt always like that we both work fulltime jobs but still manage to raise him and make sure we spend as much time as we can with him when we come home from work and on our days off. Again it is hard but not impossible. And remember Janelle does get help from her mom and MTV's big ass paychecks

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    4. Real life is not like a tv show! having a baby can break your life, but if you work towards it you can bring your life back up. There are some motheres who are 15,16,17,18 etc that dont have a whole alot of help but still is doing great and being a mom to there baby. I give credit to people who aleast try to be a great mom and credits to boy who stay

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  3. ^What do you mean don't have parents who'll babysit everyday, Barbara does everything for Jace from the very beginning. I'm glad to see she is making an effort and headed in the right direction. It's a long hard road, but she'll get there if she keeps trying!

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  4. I went through the same thing Jenelle did. I wasnt a teen mom but had my first child at age 20. My kids father is just like Andrew but I didnt do the stuff she did.. Not all teem moms in reality act like that. Some people just know how too grow up.

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  5. Pretty sure all the classes and online jobs in the world won't help her case in court if she keeps leaking nude photos of herself.

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  6. Being a teen is hard but knowing that you have a kid why not make better choices? Everything Janelle does afftects Being a good mom means not jumping from bed to bed (did she not learn her lesson?) stop smoking, and keep those jobs and keep going to school! janelle make decisions based on if she feels good doing it and just because you got 3 jobs doesnt mean your getting better at being a good mom it being home with him teaching him show your mom youre gonna put in 100% for jace not just what you feel is right. janelle grow up some more quit smoking quit all these loser guys cuz jace dont need NONE of that!!!!!

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  7. Could be that she got a boon job for no apparent. Reason but to feel better about her self she constantly breaking up n getting back together with keefa lol n she really doesn't want to b a mother cause she would do better by her son

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  8. @Anonymous 11:13

    I don't think any of the girls make it look super easy. And Jenelle's mom DOES babysit everyday - actually... That is part of the reason she has custody, is that she was babysitting everyday, even though she did not want to be (but Jenelle just kept running off and leaving Jace).

    Gary is NOT an amazing Father - do you follow his twitter feed? The guy is a LOSER - he retweets his ego-feeding praise from people with no brains. He hardly ever actually does anything with Leah, and he doesn't even work. He does not understand what is offensive or inappropirate, and can't seem to keep good friends.

    And the comment on the media trying to make it look easy... You are as delusional as Farrah.

    I hope I misinterpreted this comment, and it was actually a sarcastic rant...

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  9. & she says Snooki is a bad mom.. Maybe shes not letting you get Jace back because youre still irresponsible with all your relationship drama.. Your not stable... I think JAce is where he needs to be... You should of stepped up when you had a chance. Being a teen mom is not an excuse. Alot of teen moms tske responsiblility. i dont feel sorry for her at all.

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  10. What 3 jobs is she doing online, anyhow?

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  11. I don't think Babs is that great of an influence on Jace, but she is better than Jenelle and her drama. She just posted yet another threat on twitter, "just wait whorey Tory ". (I take it Tory posted her phone number and address or whatever.). It could mean that Jenelle is going to take legal action, but the way it is worded is more ominous than that, soooo.

    I think it is just a matter of time before another incident occurs where things get 'out of hand'. Does Jenelle really want Jace exposed to that?

    What if Jace had been there when Gary Head assaulted her?

    Jenelle can not provide and safe, nurturing, and stable home for Jace. She should never be allowed to regain custody.

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  12. hrmm Isn't there for her son but whines when she wants to go to the hospital? Srsly? And ppls want to bash her mom? I bet Jace was glad to see his GMA w/o all the craziness after surgery!

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  13. I had my first daughter at the age 18 second one at 20 still with there dad hes away in school. all the other teen moms.do make it look I dont have any family memebers that can watch my kids while I work live by myself with my kids it is very hard im doing every thing I can. Sure I wanna go out and party somwtime but dont have a babysitter glad I dont cuz.I woulda makes bad choices if she really really wants jace she woulda do all that she could ive been there before I choose partying over my kids and regret it but I relized.my kids.are my life

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  14. Is there even one person other than immediate family that actually gives a crap about Jenelle's feelings?

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    1. HA have you seen facebook?? even immediate family dosen't. Her mom and sister are TERRIBLE to her. Honestly I think it would be better for Jace in the long run if Jenelle got him back. Babs and Ashleigh are awful people and parents. oh and Ashleigh lives with Jace.

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    2. ashleigh seems unstable herself, however, jenelle constantly lies and exaggerates things for attention and so people are sorry for her. while the video was terrible, jenelle is in no place to talk about mothering abilities when she gave her rights away long ago and hasn't even TRIED getting them back. she is seriously unstable, he's better off with babs. he should've probably been adopted, really.

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    3. He really really should have been adopted. The entire family isscrewed up. Both Jenelle and Ashleigh have serious problems that I refuse to believe don't have anything to do with their upbringing. Babs is just as nucking futs as the rest.

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  15. Wow the laws were ever you are from are harsh i dont smoke weed my self but know plenty of ppl who do a sometime you wouldnt even expect it but the state i live in dhs considers weed nothing i mean it is safer than alcohal and medical mary j is becoming legal everywhere and they do perscribe it for bipolar

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    1. ok but the point is, it's illegal where she lives and she should be sober ALL the time, since she had a big enough problem with it to have to go to rehab.

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  16. What 3 jobs is she doing online?

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    1. i assume she's talking about sulia, scentsy, and grace adele?

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  17. I'm just saying, if anyone follows her on twitter she screencaps a lot of conversations between her and her mom as well as a friend and her sister. That whole family's messed up and Jenelle needs to break the cycle before Jace comes back into her life. Let's face it, her mom's crazy. Dealing with Jenelle, I know, but Jenelle's sister is just as bad. Poor Jace doesnt really have a chance until something happens.

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    1. aside from that video, not sure i fully believe jenelle. ashleigh is unstable, but i don't think babs really is. jenelle has a history of lying. it's VERY easy to fake text message convos. he's better off with babs, without ashleigh or jenelle honestly. did you see the picture jenelle posted of her sister's "abusive wounds"? that turned out to just be makeup. don't trust or believe what jenelle says.

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  18. look i was a teen mom at 17.. i have never left my son with anyone i made it on my own. my son is 13 now and doing better than me. he is smarter also i never party and did drugs. when you have kids some parents grow up young and some dont the ones who dont they dont have there kids they are in foster homes or with parents..janelle is just like my sister she was 14 and a mom my sister has 9 kids and none of her kids are with her.

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  19. at least she is trying to make her life better so she can get him back. it would be a different story if she wasnt trying. so i guess by her trying to fight for jace she really wants him back.

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    1. No she's saying she's "trying" and not doing a whole lot of anything about it. Has she stopped partying, nope. Stopped dating loser guys with criminal backgrounds and a shit load of drama, no. Back with the herion addict who put his hands on her in the past and so devistatingly sold nude photos of her 2 months ago. Has she kicked all of the crappy "friends" who do nothing but sell her out and create drama out of her life, nope, they fight and friend break up then a few months later they're friends again. Has she stopped doing drugs, I'm not stupid enough to believe that it was pixie sticks bs so nope. Has she stopped getting in legal trouble, no. She got her boobs done and then the excuse for still not having custody after 3 years was the lawyer and stuff was too expensive. She always has drama and bs in her life and keeps making the same stupid mistakes over and over and still can not put Jace first. Alls I see is the same talk she's been spewing the past 3 years and still no action.

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  20. Even if Jenelle didn't have a kid, she'd still be a shitty person. Normal people don't do drugs, get drunk, post nude pictures of themselves online (or have them posted by someone else), go to jail, go to rehab, move constantly, and have guy after guy in and out of her life.

    She is unstable. I hope Barbara keeps that baby far, far away from her!

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  21. She only pretends to care about Jace when it's convenient for her.

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  22. I'm alarmed with those taking up for Janelle! Yes she is a spoiled child who only thinks of her son to make herself look good n her own eyes. She uses the media platform to bash her mom for doing what Janelle herself refuses to do. Yes she's made mistakes but I'm sorry she was sober and clean for MOST of her probation?! That right there says it all.! Its never about Jace and always about Janelle! She worried more about getting her boobs done ...that's her priorities! He is better off with her mother he is stable and that is very important for a child! Plus everyone forgets Janelle signed him away! So why should she get him back?! Its not like Children's Services took him from her she willingly signed the papers! No sympathy here for the spoiled brat! All my attention and praise goes to Barbara! I'm sure she didn't want to start all over raising another child. Janelle has all the choices Barbara and Jace did NOT!!

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