Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Teen Mom S4 Episode 11 Recap

Teen Mom Season 4 Episode 11
"For the Best"


Maci: 
Maci and Kyle decide it might be better for Bentley if everyone in his family celebrated his Birthday together. So they want to invite Ryan and Dalis ... but she has Bentley do it. So he invites Ryan's parents and leaves a voice mail for Ryan. Once Bentley does get a hold of him he says he will see what he can do. He ends up texting Maci that he can't go. So after Maci talks about him to everyone she tries to make the best of Bentley's party. Ryan isn't happy that she had Bentley's hopes up before asking him if he wanted to do the Birthday party. He asks Maci why she did that and she lied to his face and told him that it was all Bentley's idea... The episode started off with her talking about inviting him....

Amber:
Amber gets ready to move into that huge beautiful house (which she never got to move into by the way) and Gary springs on him that she owes him $400 a month for Leah's daycare/pre-school. Amber goes to leave Leah with Gary and there is a sad moment where Leah has a meltdown. Amber doesn't understand how CPS could keep them apart when its obviously hurting Leah. Gary suggests him getting custody of Leah to end this whole CPS thing. If Gary has full custody, CPS wont need to be investigating Amber any longer and the no contact order will be lifted. I'm surprised Amber wants to do this. Gary has repeatedly used Leah as a weapon by threatening to take her away. She is putting a lot of trust in Gary to do this. 

Farrah: 
Farrah can't figure out why on Earth Daniel broke up with her and abandoned her in Texas. According to her she has no idea what happened or why he left her. She spends as much time with Sophia as she can before her mom takes her back to Iowa for a month. She needs to get through school and wants Sophia to visit the family for a while so she can really focus. So she drops Debra and Sophia off at the airport and immediately looks sad. 

Catelynn: 
Tyler's mom is having a hard time not being a part of Carly's life. She talks to Tyler about seeing a counselor to deal with her emotions about it. Tyler and Catelynn talk to April about Butch and wonder why he was so against placing Carly for adoption when he clearly doesn't care about the grandchildren he can see. April is resisting talking to him while he is in jail. Later, their adoption counselor Dawn comes by and talks to Kim and April about their feelings as grandparents of Carly. 

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  1. Dalis needs to keep her little snide remarks about Maci to herself!! She has no right to put her two cents in when it comes to Maci and Ryan's arguments!! She needs to remember that Maci is Bentley's mom NOT HER! If anything, Kyle has more of a place and he has enough respect to keep his mouth shut and stay out of it, obviously Dalis should take some lessons!!

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    1. 1. You got all that from her saying one word? lol
      2. How does Kyle have more of a place? He is Maci's boyfriend, he is not Bentley's father. Dalis is Ryan's girlfriend, she is not Bentley's mother. Neither of them have a place to say anything about parenting decisions. Dalis said "good" because Maci is the one causing problems and getting Bentley's hopes up. There were also things that went on between those two that were not shown.
      3. It's silly to judge someone by 3 minutes of seeing them on a reality show.

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    2. And that's different then u judge maci how??

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    3. The lady that writes this blog is kinda bias but so am I lol I wouldn't be able to write an unbiased blog either that being said I can not stand Dalis she just acts ugly she has a nasty attitude.

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    4. I have more of an opinion about Maci because I have seen 100 times more of her. I've followed both of them over the past year and it really does suck how they are portraying Dalis. Because she really is super sweet. It's crazy that people think she is so horrible over one word. >.<

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    5. It is hard not to be bias when you see how these people act through their twitters. Maci is a different person than how she portrays herself on tv. I can't help but be bias against her.

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    6. jamie, i love the site, but you have to work on being less biased. we know you don't like maci, that's okay, we get it. but you should maintain some sense of professionalism by not arguing in the comments or making remarks in articles about certain teen moms.

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    7. I dont know what kind of other Teen Mom sites all you people are reading but this one and The Ashley when she does post articles are the only legit unbiased ones. TMT and Teen Mom Junkies arent even half as good as this site.

      These articles are always well written, are legit and are very neutral, keep up the good work Jamie.

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    8. Nobody's forcing you to read this blog... so if think it's bias then you don't have to stay.

      Jamie! I love all that you do.

      But really, name me one blog/newspaper/media outlet that is not bias. Everyone has a bias. NBC leans to the left, Fox News leans to the right, CNN changes with the wind.

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    9. i don't have to stay, but i can give CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. i shouldn't be told to just go away for that.

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  2. "Dalis needs to keep her little snide remarks about Maci to herself!! She has no right to put her two cents in when it comes to Maci and Ryan's arguments!! She needs to remember that Maci is Bentley's mom NOT HER! If anything, Kyle has more of a place and he has enough respect to keep his mouth shut and stay out of it, obviously Dalis should take some lessons!! "

    I agree. A lot of the arguments have been stemming from Dalis. She seems insecure, but she needs to get over that because Bentley WILL pick up on the remarks she makes.

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    1. Wow, Maci must be really jealous of Dalis! Dalis is very pretty, in fact gorgeous compared to drunky-pants Maci or should I say pasty Maci, but Maci is playing silly high school games and it will only hurt her in the end. One day Bentley will see the footage for himself and if Maci wants to have the respect of her son she should end this juvenile war.

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  3. I give props to Dalis! If I was with a guy who had an ex baby mama that was obviously still in love with him and constantly tried to start shit I would have said alot more than "good." Maci was completely stupid having Bentley ask Ryan on the phone especially when they had already made plans for separate parties. The tagging along on the family vacation to the mind control guilt trip she's pulls on Ryan is disgusting. Ryan seems to just want to do his own thing with Bentley and his family and I think that makes Maci nuts!!! Ryan has the right to care about Dalis's feelings. Bentley wasn't even upset Ryan wasn't there.. MACI WAS.. And I'm sure that bothers Dalis rightfully so. If you ask a child if they want their Dad and grandparents there.. Would they really say no? It's not like Ryan was a Dick and blew his son off. He just didn't wanna be around Maci's crazy ass!!!

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    1. I totally agree. Until you date someone with a kid you can't judge here. Kyle is cool with things now but was just like Dalis in the beginning. It is a huge adjustment to date someone with a kid and it will take her time just like it took Kyle time.

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    2. I think you're doing exactly what Dalis does and looking at Maci like Ryans ex and not Bentlys mom.

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    3. Yes, but it take some time not to do so. Try it.

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  4. Wow way to give a totally biased report and even leave out information. Like the fact that Dalis was rude and snarkily said, "GOOD!" when she had no place saying anything at all, no matter what the words or word. Honestly, she shouldn't have even been there picking him up, especially knowing there could have been a discussion. Extremely tacky and trashy. I STAY AWAY when my boyfriend goes to pick up his child from the child's mother for his week (they have dual custody). Even though when I am around the child's mother, there aren't issues, I recognize that it's not really my place to be around when he's picking up their kid, because they may have to discuss business or other issues, etc. And I would never, EVER, say ANYTHING in a conversation meant to be between the two of them, unless I was standing there and the woman said something TO that called for a response, or said something very rude about me, then I'd stand up for myself, but civilly. Dalis was so out of line it's not even funny. Terrible attitude. But this will probably get deleted, because the blogger probably doesn't agree with me.

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    1. I meant to say "TO me."
      And as an aside, Maci was in the wrong by not talking to Ryan first, and lying about whose idea it was. I totally get that.
      And Ryan was wrong for bringing Dalis along to pick Bentley up when there was most likely going to be an issue, he was wrong for having that discussion with Dalis and Bentley in earshot, and he was wrong by not being clear with Bentley about the fact that he wasn't coming.

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    2. And Ryan was wrong for bringing Dalis along to pick Bentley up when there was most likely going to be an issue

      Hold the phone! How do we know that they didn't go somewhere before getting Bentley... like out to dinner. It would stupid to drive her back to his house and then go to pick Bentley. Because I'm sure if Ryan HAD been late to get him, Maci would have ripped him a new one in addition to jumping throat about not showing up.

      he was wrong for having that discussion with Dalis and Bentley in earshot,

      I don't think he really want to have the conversation and based on the earlier conversation between Maci and her mom, Maci went out there looking for a fight, which Ryan didn't want... in the slightest.

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    3. 1. My boyfriend and I respect the mother of his child enough to make sure we're never put in a position where I would HAVE to be in the car while he's picking up his son. I know other women and men in my position who schedule things appropriately so that such things won't happen. Ryan and Dalis should have the respect and decency to do the same. And I highly doubt that Dalis had to be there. It looks like they were coming straight from Ryan's house. If so, she should have stayed at his house. If not, then they shouldn't have put themselves in that position.

      2. You don't think he really wanted to have the conversation? Were we watching the same show? After Maci brought out Bentley and Ryan put him in the car, Ryan turned around and said, "So why didn't you call me ..." He STARTED the argument! If he hadn't brought it up, then your point would make sense, but he's the one who started a conversation on the topic with her.

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    4. He asked her a legitimate question... that isn't starting an argument.

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    5. Point number 1 is irrelevant...Kyle is often in the car to pick up Bentley too. Avoiding all contact is silly. There is nothing wrong with sitting in the car during pickup/dropoffs. And he was asking a question and telling her that's not okay so it doesn't cause a problem in the future. and SHE LIED to him about the situation. She implanted the idea in Bentley's head.

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    6. Exactly. If a couple has a child and they are no longer together but have significant others it shouln't be an issue to be in the car with you bf/gf when you pick up or drop off your chld. Its more immature to avoid each other than it is to have brief encounters. whats going to happen when Bentley has his preschool grad? Sports events? When he gets married one day. Maci needs to grow the f*ck up. She pulls double standards all the time.

      My daughters father and I arent together and havent been for almost 3 years. He has a girlfriend who he's been with for just over a year and I've met her several times when we meet up to pick-up and drop off my daughter, she HAS even picked her up without my ex being there. Were civil and polite to each other. Im happy my daughter has another positive female in her life. And she knows she isn't Jayla's mother and knows "her place" so there has never been an issue. I understand Im lucky, but at the same time there is no reason why Maci has to act the way she does.

      Sorry ofr the typos-I wrote this really quick

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    7. ^ i'm glad things worked out for you in that area. I totally agree with everything you said.

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    8. None of you are getting my point. Because the mother of his child has a lot of issues and can strike out randomly and start drama, we avoid me being in the car for pick ups/drop offs. Other events are different. But there is no need for me, Kyle, or Dalis to be at a pick up/drop off of Bentley. I never said Kyle should be in the car. But also notice Kyle has never butted in. I am completely civil to my boyfriend's mother - she just refuses to be civil to me. It's best for their child to not create a situation where the woman MIGHT lash out because I am there. That's her problem, not mine, but I'd rather not stir shit up. Recognizing where there might be an issue around a child and trying to avoid the problem is a good thing, and it is mature. I'm not avoiding the mother altogether. Just when it isn't necessary to be around her.

      And as for him asking the question, he shouldn't have asked the question there with Dalis and Bentley in earshot. It's something they needed to discuss privately later. Just like they should have discussed the Dalis tweet issue in private when Bentley wasn't around. He had every right to ask the question - it was inappropriate to ask it when and where he did. This isn't a hard concept.

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    9. Yeah sometimes the mothers can be a little crazy. I would be if my ex was an immature partier and brought different girls around my daughter all the time- luckily I don't have to deal with that

      I am just sick of watching people post about Dalis is in the wrong for this and that, when its actually Maci that is causing the drama. She shouldn't have to avoid car rides or anything because of that because in the end, Maci is getting her way,and Bentley will eventually pick up on the tension if he hasn't already.

      I don't understand how Maci acts the way she does, no will I ever. My daughter is the same age as Bentley and also havent been with the father of my child since she was 8 months. Im lucky to have a mature ex and we co-parented beautifully right from the start and I understand that it takes time for couples to do this but after 3 years you would think something would change.

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  5. & what was up with ryan not wanting to shut the door while he disrespects the mother of his child in front of bentley and that bitch Dalis, trust me if he comfortable talking to Maci that way what makes you(Dalis) think you wont be next what a dummy!. On top of that Ryan's parents are just as crazy as him!!!

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    1. He talks that way to her because she is crazzzy and Maci treats him just as awful.

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    2. Because he was treating Maci like that for Dalis' benefit (hence not wanting to close the door). Dalis was hanging on every word they each said. She seems so insecure

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    3. It took me a while not to do the same when I started dating my boyfriend who has a child. the mother/father relationship isn't easy to understand and wil take her time. Just lie it took kyle time to not watch maci's every move and convo she had with ryan when they first started dating. And he would act that way towards Maci before he ever knew Dalis.

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  6. Remember when Maci wasn't going to have any contact with Ryan and pickup/dropoffs go through the grandparents so they never see each other because Kyle didn't want them to??? Apparently not cause if so people wouldn't be so angry at Dalis. MTV doesn't show the whole convo, they are biased towards Maci cause the general public likes her so much and they dont want to ruin her image on the show.

    Maci has such gigantic double standards about how she and Dalis should be versus Ryan and Kyle. Asking ryan to go to Bentleys party the DAY OF is ridiculous. Of course ryan isnt going to tell Bentley no on the phone, Maci was totally wrong in getting Bentley involved. She was the only one upset, not Bentley.

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    1. that wasn't because of kyle, it's because maci and ryan could NEVER stop fighting.

      she asked ryan the day before, not the day of. if ryan couldn't go, he shouldn't have told bentley he could. maci should've had the convo with him first, but ryan shouldn't have lied to him and then fought with his mother with bentley within earshot. completely inappropriate for dalis to even be there.

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    2. He didn't say that he could go. He said he would "see what he could do"

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    3. Yes it was because of Kyle. Kyle was jealous of Ryan (wouldn't even talk to or kiss Maci after he would take her to drop B off at Ryan's)..cause yes he attends drop offs too..and it was hurting Maci/Kyle relationship so she decided to never have contact with him (which is obviously not possible)to make Kyle happy.


      Double standards for Dalis. Totally unfair.People are quick to forget Kyle acted the same way.


      ^^sorry meant to post this as a reply not as a new post.

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  7. Exactly. MACI starts drama then blames everything on Ryan. He was right, why didn't she tell Bentley they were having separate parties? Bc last year that Ryan's family came to his bday she ignored them and hogged Bentley.

    If I was Dalis I'd be pissed too. She has a right to care how Ryan feels, just like Kyle cares how Maci feels. How many times does Kyle bad mouth Ryan? And didn't he try and make them have no contact last season? None of tht compares to saying "good" when some crazy bitch is trying to manipulate your boyfriend.

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  8. If Maci had said she didn't want Bentley to invite Ryan & Dalis to his birthday party, everyone would be calling her a bitch and would be bitching about that. Get my point? And the whole reason Ryan had the door open while they were talking is so that Dalis could hear their conversation. You don't see Kyle wanting to be a part of Maci and Ryan's conversations about Bentley, that was just disrespectful to Maci. Its so pathetic to watch Ryan's parents parent him like he's a teenage boy. How old is he?! I doubt he would be seeking joint custody in court if it wasn't for his parents pushing him, and they mostly take care of Bentley during Ryan's time I bet!

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    1. I don't think so considering the fact that they both had agreed to do separate parties already. Maci changed the plan at the last minute.

      Ryan's parents care about him and there really isn't anything wrong with that. They give him advice because he IS still young. Just like Maci's parents do with her.

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  9. Maci just wanted Ryan and Dalis at the party so she could be the alpha female. Bentley didn't even notice or care. It really does seem that she still has feelings for Ryan. She manipulates people around her to get her way then gets upset when it's not exactly what she wanted. She is spoiled. She put the idea in Bentley's head then lied to Ryan about it.

    I don't think Dalis should have said anything but she probably is tired if Maci's drama. I don't see a problem with her being there because Maci brings Kyle to drop off Bentley. There is such a huge double standard with Maci. I used to like her and think Ryan wasnt a very good parent because he was always going but now the tables have turned.

    Amber drives me crazy! She gets upset about the smallest things! Like the phone conversation where Gary couldn't hear her. You could tell she was annoyed. When Amber dropped of Leah, she made it worse by not leaving. Gary isn't the best parent but I commend him for dealing with everything that has happened.

    As for Farrah, how did she not know why Daniel left her in Texas? She was pushing marriage on him. Yes, she has a kid and doesn't want to waste time but a month is way too soon to talk about forever. I think it's ridiculous. Also, I was annoyed about her whining that Sophia was leaving for a month. She doesn't seen to appreciate the time she has with her. Most mothers don't just let their kids stay somewhere else for a month. I've got two kids and would never think about doing something like that. Her school excuse is pathetic because I'm working on a Master's and can still get my stuff done and good grades.

    I'm disappointed in how the girls have turned out. Maci spends more time traveling and partying and is a bad role model. She hasn't finished school and doesn't have a job after the show is over. Farrah still hasn't grown up. She seems more interested in making money and exploiting her child then being a mother. Catelynn and Tyler need to just go to college. It took them long enough to graduate high school and now they are putting college off because they aren't sure what the right major is? Talk to an advisor duh! Take your general classes required for every degree. And Amber is a hot mess and we all know how that has worked out. These girls are not good examples of how parenting actually is.

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    1. yeah the whole Maci/Dalis/Ryan this is just Maci expected Dalis to behave in every way that kyle didn't at first either. total double standards. And she has spends most of her time traveling/partying and not doing responsible things like getting a degree. One day Bentley will be like well momma it took you 5 years to get an associates degree so I don't need to go to school either.

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  10. I can't stand Maci. Seems to me as if she is just trying to intimidate Dalis. She obviously wants Ryan back; the texts about how he'd have more fun with her, the tweet from last episode, and now the birthday party. I feel like Maci only wanted Ryan and Dalis there to make Dalis feel uncomfortable and so Maci can feel like she has some sort of "power" over thier relationship. She is ridiculous.

    And to all you saying Dalis was disrespectful to Maci? Ummm Maci has been completely disrespectful to Dalis and her relationship with Ryan! I've dated someone with a child and the situation was very similar to this...and let me tell you, it was not fun dealing with her.

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    1. Agreed. I've dated someone with a child for a long time, it was not a fun experience dealing with his ex. Maci just wants to show Dalis how in charge of everything she is.

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    2. Agreed I feel like people hate on Dalis so much and that they don't understand where she coming from. Maci does so much shady things that I'm shock at how well Dalis handle herself when it comes to Maci drama . Maci is just a brat who wants to feel like she is center of Ryan world but she not so she has to behavior. Like a spoiled brat to get her way by using Bentley has a excuse and which is wrong Ryan was right in this situation. And Maci was wrong Dalis is a nice girl and I think Maci is jealous of her. Because she knows Dalis is the one girl that Ryan is really serious with and instead of being happy. That Ryan has finally found a good girl she has to try to mess it up Dalis is a tough and I'am glad she is not allowing Maci and Maci army to intimate and bully her. You should see how Maci retweet negative stuff about Dalis like you are not really a model Maci is just two faced. I like Jamie she is not up Maci ass like some of the other bloggers that write about Maci. They act like Maci has rainbow shoooting out her ass atleast Jamie is fair. And she call out all the girls if they behavior is wrong and that how it should be.

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    3. Oh and also how Maci is extremely manipulative...and is always using Bentley to manipulate others. This had nothing to with Bentley's feelings and everything to do with hers!

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    4. The mother of my boyfriend's child is a crazy manipulative bitch. She has disrespected me horribly and gone out of her way to try to sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend. I STILL have the decency to be civil to her, not butt in, or be rude. It's called being a mature adult, and being the better person. Dalis, and any of you who are also in such a position, should do the same. It's about what's best for the kid. Not about proving someone wrong, talking back to them, etc.

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    5. "And to all you saying Dalis was disrespectful to Maci? Ummm Maci has been completely disrespectful to Dalis and her relationship with Ryan!"

      I understand that Maci was not 100% innocent on the issues with Dalis, there have been plenty of trivial yet clearly disharmonious statements and stunts that she's pulled since seemingly the minute she found out Ryan has a girlfriend.
      Now I don't necessarily think it's because she wants to be with Ryan, mainly because she seems perfectly happy having her own family with Bentley and Kyle and has mainly gotten over her past relationship with her 'baby daddy' as I've seen her refer to Ryan as one time. And I certainly didn't agree with the way she invited Ryan, Ryan's parents, and Dalis to Bentley's birthday party by having Bentley invite them over the phone himself; it is setting her son up to be disappointed at the least, and if I were to be invited to a child's BD by the child him/herself...as much as I'd find it cute, I'd want to speak with an adult to get a better idea of what was actually going on here lol

      But to get to my disagreement; IMO Dalis WAS disrespectful to Maci. Hell, not just Maci; to Ryan as well, along with the fact that Maci and Ryan have a child to think and discuss about in situations like the one last episode. I'm sorry, but it was NOT her place to but in and make any kind of comment like that (a sly, snarky remark whether it be just "Good" or something extended) during her boyfriend's and his ex's arguments involving their son. Tbh, I would of thought her as petty if Maci and Ryan were childless and arguing about a damn pair of shoes they were fighting over and she commented on it like that.

      I understand that she and Maci may not have been in a great place with one another, and that's understandable and slightly expected to find in any kind of situation involving one individual, his/her new partner, and an ex; especially when all parties are teenagers or of considerably young age(s). But to me, what Dalis needs to realize is that Bentley makes this not your typical high school gf-bf-exgf drama. I concluded the same thing when she got upset over Maci's tweet, which I think any parent who's not with their children's father/mother would understand Maci's post very well.
      I don't have any negative opinions of Dalis. What I do think is that she needs to adapt herself to this kind of situation and respect the fact that she, along with Kyle who seemingly demonstrates this knowledge to me, has little reason to comment or get involved in such discussions Maci and Ryan have about their son if she wishes to pursue a relationship with Ryan or any single father. Maci may have acted inappropriately herself, but it doesn't take away nor justify Dalis's OR anyone else's wrongdoings either.
      Bottom line is that Dalis was wrong. And that's it.
      Just my perspective.

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  11. Catelynn and Tyler's segments are starting to annoy me. None of them seem to understand that Brandon and Theresa are Carly's parents, not Cate and Tyler. The grandparents should have taken the time in the beginning to learn that not every single member of the family is entitled to go visit Carly. They should be thankful that Cate and Tyler get to.

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    1. It's starting to look like Catelyn & Tyler's segments are forced or that the producers are getting them to think about Carly that much. It's no wonder Tyler's mother expected to see Carly the was Catelyn & Tyler go on and on about her. I'm a parent and couldn't imagine giving up my daughter even under the circumstances they did but I have to believe that nearly 3 years later I would be in a place where me and my family would be at peace with the choice and not talk openly about it on a daily basis. It sounds harsh but I guess they've got to have a reason to be on the show. I just wish they would focus on school half as much as wondering about Carly.

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  12. I'm annoyed that Amber jumped down her mom's throat about the signing away custody. Her mom is looking out for her, trying to tell her that it is a stupid idea. While it would close the CPS investigation, Amber would no longer have any say in how Leah was raised or any legal grounds to fight for visitation if Gary decided to cut ties with her. It's a dumb move...!

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    1. I agree! Amber should listen to her mother, moms do know best sometimes! All she did was give Gary more control over her life by doing that.

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  13. Ok I am not a huge Ryan fan but I have to side with him. Maci should not have waited till the day before to invite him to Bentley's party. Then to put Ryan on the :( sad for Bentley

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  14. It does not matter who is right who is wrong what the problem is or who started it. Dalis is just trying to create baby mamma drama casue she's jealous of Maci. Maci will always be around, for the rest of Ryans life. While Dalis is disposable. bitch

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    1. lol because she said ONE word. Yeah... makes sense.

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    2. LOL. Would she be getting so much flack if she had said, "Okay." instead of "good."

      Probably so...!

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  15. Ya know Maci was trying to be nice and include Ryan and Dalis in their plans for him. Ryan should have come. It dosen't matter how much Dalis dosen't like Maci. He just let his son down for his girlfriend

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    1. No one said he didn't go because of his girlfriend. Don't make assumptions. You could tell on the phone he couldn't come when he said "ill see what i can do".

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    2. To the person that wrote the above comment: ryan definately could have gone. That's what happens when you have a child! You move less important shit out of your schedule because your child comes first! What could he have been busy doing? Let me guess: Dalis. Its not like he was working or anything!

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    3. He made it very clear when he was talking to his parents that it was cause they didnt want to be qround maci

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    4. Ryan had his own bday party for Bentley the next day. He was not required to attend Maci's party especially since she asked him THAT day. Given how last year's party went with Maci hogging Bentley and refusing to acknowledge his parents, I don't blame him for not wanting to go. In no way was ryan in the wrong for not going.

      And he has a full time job and did so during last year too! So yes he could have been workign/just gotten off work.

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    5. Anon, 12:49. Co-parenting doesn't mean you HAVE to share every holiday, every birthday, every special event with the other parent. It just means that you are on the same page when it comes to raising the child. And if Ryan didn't want to deal with Maci and Kyle and that, it was in his right to not do so.

      Maci was in the wrong. She shouldn't have made the decision to invite them and then tell Bentley about it and have him call. That's emotionally blackmailing Ryan and his family, because who would say no to a 3 yr old little boy.

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  16. does anyone else think that Ambers mom talks like she's on something?

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    1. I did. She was definitely slurring her words!

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  17. Yes it was because of Kyle. Kyle was jealous of Ryan (wouldn't even talk to or kiss Maci after he would take her to drop B off at Ryan's)..cause yes he attends drop offs too..and it was hurting Maci/Kyle relationship so she decided to never have contact with him (which is obviously not possible)to make Kyle happy.


    Double standards for Dalis. Totally unfair.People are quick to forget Kyle acted the same way.

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    1. no, it was because they couldn't talk without fighting.

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  18. Not only did Maci want to use Bentley as a pawn in her little games, but she probably invited Ryan hoping he'd return the favor and invite her to his family's party for Bentley on his actual birthday...and then she'd take over that day too.

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  19. I dont like dalis she like to start shit if I was maci I would jump that bitch

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    1. Dalis didn't do anything. It was Maci who was manipulating her own child and telling him who to call and what to say in an attempt to hijack her own son's real birthday which was not the day she said it was. She assumed that Ryan told Bentley he was coming to his party and saw a chance to make Ryan look like the bad guy. She was wrong and made herself look very manipulative. Considering how much she drinks and parties, Maci is not looking like any kind of Mom.

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  20. Is CPS really making Amber move to a safer neighborhood to get custody of her kid back? How can they make that a stipulation? What about all the people who don't have money to move to a nicer neighborhood?

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  21. You all are nuts. Obviously half are team Maci or team Ryan/Dalis. I have rewound theses shows and don't see anywhere really Maci has done anything wrong. I'm a 42 yr old mother of two grown boys, and what she did inviting them to Bentley's birthday was not wrong. I think everyone is putting way too much thought into it. Ryan should have said he couldn't, but they would have a great party later. Ryan has always been a lazy ass from the beginning. His parents are way too involved with his life and how they raise Bentley. Parenting is the hardest job you can ever have. They will make mistakes. NEVER should you talk about the other in front of the child! He's always been very disrespectful to her, from the beginning. I don't think Maci is jealous of Dalia or maybe she would freshen up when she was going to see him. Maxi is the best teen Mom there is on this show. Bentley shows it. Ryan has just recently gotten involved with Bentley's life. Sad. Hope Bentley doesn't remember any of this.

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  22. To tell you the truth I think you guys enjoy watching other peoples lives so you don't have to focus on your own lives. I think everyone should mind their own business and worry aboutyour own lives.

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