Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Amber Portwood Fallen Ill in Prison

Amber is currently in Prison serving her 5 year sentence for a probation violation. Things seemed to be going okay for her in there up until recently. Apparently Amber has fallen Ill and can't be treated by a doctor for many weeks.  

Amber's brother Shawn says:
"She has an abscess in her mouth that's gotten so big and swollen that her whole jaw is puffed out. Her mouth has become infected and the pain is making her so sick that she can't sleep, and hasn't eaten a thing in three days... It needs to be done now if the infection gets in her blood stream it can be life-threatening." 

Amber called her mother, begging her to try for an appeal so that she can be released early and see a doctor faster. She is in a lot of pain. It is sad to hear that she is ill. She is in my prayers!

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  1. been there done that... wouldnt wish the pain of an absess on anyone...

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    1. SHE NEEDS TO BE TREATED FOR THAT.IF IT GETS IN HER BLOOD IT CAN KILL HER....HER DAUGHTER NEEDS HER TO BE OKAY.SHE HAS MADE MISTAKES BUT EVERYONE IS NOT PERFECT.

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    2. Medically she needs to be treated but I cant say that I feel sorry for her situation. I think Amber has brought alot of whats happening to her on herself. Sometimes Gary is wrong but it seems to me that Amber is the type to be a victim and wants the sympathy. I am not sure how much of wanting to see her daughter is an act for the cameras, I am not there so I cant say for sure. It just seems like she has her priorities mixed up and needs alot more help and therapy. I wish her luck.

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    3. i hope they get her help soon, she has a little girl to go home to

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  2. all you need to do is put her on an antibiotic.

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    1. EXACTLY THEY CAN NOT AND WILL NOT REMOVE AN ABSCESSED TOOTH UNTIL THE INFECTION IS GONE! i had one not so long ago and it was horrific !! it happened after a cavity was filled and the dentist basically sealed in my infection ! I WAS IN MISERY ANTIBIOTICS CAN BE ADMINISTERED BY THE PRISON DOCTOR! DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE AMBER BUT YOU DONT GET AN APPEAL FOR A PROBATION VIOLATION THAT ENDED IN A 5 YR BIT THAT YOU CHOOSE OVER REHAB!I TOO HAVE BEEN IN THE SYSTEM AND KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE ON PAPERS ,I WOULD HAVE DONE THE PROBATION AND IF HER SUBSTANCE WAS OPIATES SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER OFF IN A MM CLINIC=ONLY MY OPINION!

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    2. Maybe we are not being told the whole story. Maybe she is on antibiotics, and needs to wait 6 weeks to have a (possible) extraction.

      Shawn and Gary tend to want to cash in on stories about Amber - have you ever noticed how often Shawn gets quoted in magazines?

      Plus Amber often plays the victim, so she will whine that she isn't getting treatment, and she is so hard done by, when in reality they have done everything possible (given her the anitibiotics) and she is just waiting for the infection to go down to see a specialist, who wouldn't have been able to do anything for her in the first place.

      Who is to say she isn't on the antibiotics and isn't just playing *yet again* the poor Amber card?

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    3. I agre most jails have their own dr or nurse. I dont believe it

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  3. take care of your teeth... wouldnt wanna walk around with rotton teeth..... but that would probly match your personality....

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    1. in my opinion she has every right to have a nasty attitude. If people would allow her to see her daughter and not threaten to take her daughter from her every minute of everyday, she would probably be alot calmer

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    2. Whoever wrote the initial comment here is completely uneducated. Brushing teeth or not doesn't lead to an abscess. You're thinking of cavities.

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    3. She does not have every right to have a nasty attitude. And I bet she was nasty before her daughter was even born. Amber has mental health issues, as well as behavioral issues. There is no excuse for her poor behavior. (Her upbringing has a lot to do with how she acts now, but many people have come from poor backgrounds and are able to change their behavior.).

      It has nothing to do with not being allowed to see her daughter. In fact, not seeing her daughter is a result of her poor behavior, not the other way around.

      Stop making excuses for Amber, you are only enabling her, and telling her that her behavior is acceptable.

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    4. I agree with the above. She's a really messed up girl and sadly I don't think her daughter needs to even be with her. Don't be stupid people they have doctors and dentists in the jail!! And she only needs antibiotics to kill the abscess

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    5. Wow. Aren't you a wise asshole shit talking a sick person that you don't even know over the internet. What an asshole. It has nothing to do with how good your hygiene is. I hope you get shit on by a bird today!

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    6. Vanessa - your comment isn't even coherent. Using basic grammar, and less explicitives would help make your (ignorant and uneducated) point. And attacks, like hoping someone gets shit on by a bird, tend to reflect poorly on the author (in this case, Vanessa) rather than the person who made the original comment.

      And lack of brushing CAN lead to an abscess, although not every abscess is caused by poor hygiene.

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  4. Yeah she has a toothache really trying to get out of jail for that give her some antibiotics and she will be fine there's no reason for her to be out of jail for the crime pay the time

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  5. Amber Portwood is human, let her get the treatment she need.
    Hope you feel better soon Amber.

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  6. So, you're telling me that people don't receive medical and/or dental treatment in prison? This story doesn't make any sense. Just sayin'.

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    1. NOPE THEY DONT GET IT.. I KNOW SOMEONE THAT RECENTLY GOT OUT AND LOST AN EYE BECAUSE THERE SO CARELESS IN THERE...

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    2. in jail/prison u are on a list to see a doctor.. some ppl it takes weeks.... you cant just go when you want.

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    3. nope not unless its life threatening, and even then they don't get treated the well my uncle got his hand broken in prison and they didn't do anything, now he walks around with a messed up hand for the rest of his life

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  7. i cant believe the jail is not treating it if anything bad happens to her it will be on the jails hands for not getting her the treatment she needs!!

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    1. in prison they do not care !! you r state property!! f.a.c.t.

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    2. That is so true u belong to them

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    3. You become their slave once your in prison

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  8. I have had that problem it sucks and, hope she gets the help she needs and, lets hope for the best her attitude is rotten just like her teeth !

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  9. Actually if you legitimately read the article, you will notice in the first paragraph, sentence three it reads "Apparently Amber has fallen Ill and can't be treated by a doctor for many weeks." which means she CAN get medical and/or dental treatment in prison, just not as soon as possible unless it's life threatening. Doesn't anyone think before they post?

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  10. Give her some antibiotics and motrin and let her do her time she deserves to be were she's at she needs help and now she's geting it were she's at

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  11. My friend is having the sane problem with seeing a doctor. I feel so bad for her! She's a good person , and she is doing her best to be a better person ! And for the person who said this story doesn't make sense it does completely, in prison you have to wait a long long time to see a doctor

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    1. Often in real life you have to wait to see a doctor as well. In fact, a lot of people may not have the option to see a doctor at all!

      And why is it that Shawn always seems to be selling one story or another?

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  12. umm yea people dont get treated the way (medical wise) like their suppose to in jail/prison..you cant have narcotics in jail/prison..i had my reeth pulled in jail and alls they gave me was neproxen..i feel bad for her but then again i dont cause if she wasnt such a bitch she wouldnt be in this position..

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  13. Everyone needs to leave amber alone... poor girl gets enough... if shes in pain i think she needs to get treated mouth pain is the worst.. i would rather have another baby then to get a painful tooth.. i hope she can get somethin for it.

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  14. I've had an abscessed tooth worst pain.ever...hope she gets treatment it can kill u

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  15. Amazing... just telling "whoever" to give her antibiotics and magically it happens! If you don't know a damn thing about medical things as in when someone can be seen, don't comment about it. It really makes you look stupid. And how the hell do any of you know she has "rotten teeth"? Smh if only this world could be filled with more actual nice, caring people. I hope she gets seen soon because I don't want to see anything happen to her before she gets out.. I swear, it seems as tho people would say "sorry" if she died but end with "if she had done this or that blah blah blah.. none of this would've happened".... my heart aches for her :( #NOH8 all day, every day <3

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  16. i think it is sad that she cant get this treated , they should treat it and treat it now , infections from your teeth can kill you , i dont really give a rats ass what she done or didnt do she does not deserve this treatment she is getting , also what she dont deserve is all you haters out there bashing her all the time HELLO all you IDIOTS she made a mistake , she is trying to fix that mistake , i just think she needs more supportive fans , i really like Amber and i know she can fix this , she wants to fix it , i feel so bad for her , she had such a rough life , come on all you bashers u know u all have made mistakes at 1 point or another , if all you haters have nothing but bad things to say i think u should not say anything at all , move on to another page we dont want or need your drama or bashing , rude comments , love & hugs to Amber , hope you get better soon sweetie

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  18. Omfg. Gary deserved to get punched in the head. She did.not deserve a cps case by any means. Yes she is respinsible for her own actions and should have sought help instead of drugs but gary is an emotionaly abusive pedo. He should be doing 5 years for sleeping with a minir nit her for doing drugs I agree she deserves jail but 5 years is steep. It dosent matter what she has done though abcesses suck! And it.has nothing to do with hygeine or rotten teeth. Its a medical condition that could ebd her life if its not treated.

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    1. She DID deserve a CPS investigation - she was abusive (physically) in front of Leah, which means Leah can learn that behavior. In fact, Amber admits that she learned that behavior in her own house growing up.

      You are right, Gary is emotionally abusive (which Leah will also pick up on), and a complete idiot. (I can't stand him!). But Amber did not just make one mistake, (the physical abuse on at LEAST 2 occasions), she also was high on pills (and what ever else).

      It is a damn good thing that CPS got involoved. Amber is not mentally stable (as she swears about CPS infront of Leah), and has addiction issues.

      What if she had overdosed while Leah was over?

      I wish CPS would monitor more families. Amber is a product of the environment she was raised in. What if CPS has intervened while she was an enfant, (And her parents had made better choices as a result)?

      I don't know that Amber will ever be able to be balanced. Perhaps it is best if she never has another child.

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    2. She didnt get the cps case for drugs. She got it for knocking garys lughts out. Yeah it was bad to do it in front of leah but he deserved it 100%. If I were to ever see that fat jack ass I woukd hit him to.

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    3. The point was that CPS needed to be involved for more than one reason (physical abuse, mental instability, and drug dependancy).

      No one deserves to be hit. She could have left at any time. She could have broken up with him at any time. There is no reason to hit.

      You are a very disturbed individual.

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    4. Not really. Some people need a good punch in the head. Paticularly child molesting emotionaly abusive a holes like gary. Yes she could have and should have left him long before this all shit hit the fan but gary manipulated her. That dosent take all the blame off of her but he shares it equally. If he wasnt in the picture shr would have raised leah very well. As it is she will end up being emotionaly and probably sexualy by her father. HE is who csp needs to look at not amber.yeah she needs help but shes not getting it and all cps has done is screw that poor kid up. Do you serioisly think a pedo is better to raise her than amber?

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    5. You may have legal liability for what you wrote above.

      A punch in the head solves nothing.

      Even if Gary wasn't int he picture Amber still had emotional/mental issues, and issues with addiction, which make her an unfit mother.

      Regardless of what you think, CPS was needed in Amber's case.

      Saying that Leah will probably be sexuallly abused by Gary is crossing the line. I detest Gary, but implying that he really is a molester? I believe that there could be legal ramifications if he chose to persue the comment.

      Not wise to make those statements. Not wise at all.

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    6. I think they were referring to how young Amber was when he got with her.

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    7. "As it is she will end up being emotionaly and probably sexualy by her father."

      Do you think Gary would really radically change his behavior if he was hit? Oh wait - Amber did hit him (on at least 2 occasions) and his behavior did not get better.

      Hitting does not solve anything.

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    8. HE MOLESTED AMBER GENIUS!!!!!! Hecould pursue it all you want but Amber was about 13 when they got together and he was 18. He already had sex with one little girl wy wouldnt he have sex with another?? HE should have arrested and imprisioned for it. It's sick. He was an adult and she was a child. Are you really so dumb you don't realize that?? I study this and I know how the cycle works. It sickens me that he was awarded custody. Seriously are you like Garys gf or something?? You're defending things that are not okay to defend. I'll say it again. at 18/19 years old he was having sex with a 13/14 year old. Tell me how in the world is that NOT molesting a child??? I would really love to know. You are fucking sick if you think that is okay.

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    9. Didn't amber say at one point she was with someone before Gary and had sex? Gary was a virgin when he met amber and stayed one until they got together. So if what you're saying is true amber had sex at 12/13? When I was that age I didn't even know what sex was much less that boys and girls had different parts

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    10. I'm not the original "gary molested her" anon, but I have to chime in and say to you above me that your comment is ridiculous. Anyone's previous sexual behavior does not make it OK for someone else to take advantage of or abuse them. If Gary had sex with her at that young age, regardless of if he was a virgin or not, HE SEXUALLY ABUSED HER. That's a fact. And it IS disgusting that this hasn't been investigated.

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    11. Yeah. it is true. he's 4 or 6, not sre which years older than her and on her 16 and pregnant episode she said they had been together for 3 years. Now I don't beleive for one second that that fat asshole did not take advantage of the emotionaly damaged and insecure little girl and sleep with her right away. but hey. I've got legal liability for pointing out fact right??

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    12. I think Amber is an unfit mother, as I have expressed numerous times before, but I also believe that it is SICK that Gary was so much older than Amber. I do not think (crossed fingers) that he is going to sexually abuse Leah, and I do think he could have/should have been charged bc of his relationship with Amber. That said I don't think Gary can be blamed for all of Amber's faults. I did not know that Amber had been sexually active before Gary, but it does fit with her character.

      My point? Gary is an idiot, but Amber's problems are not all Gary's fault, and it is not just the physical outbursts of anger that are problematic for Amber to be a parent.

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    13. They are 3.5 years apart and didn't meet until Amber was 15... just FYI.

      In terms of legality, sure Gary was an "adult" as in he was 18 and the age of majority. But on a human level, they were both teenagers.

      In most relationships, the guy is older than the girl anyway. It's really "fucking sick" to call him a molester because of a teenage relationship. So it's all immoral until the second that Amber turns 18? It's all consensual and no different than them sleeping together after if they were 20 and 23 or 14 and 17.

      Technically it would be "statutory rape" but he is NOT a molester . Molesting implies something COMPLETELY different. I pray you understand the difference so you stop calling him that. He's an A-hole but don't call him a molester. I think what you mean to say is "statutory rape" which means it's consensual sex between an adult and a minor. I think it is good to have that law to protect young girls from being taken advantage of much older men. Like when a 30 year old sleeps with a 16 year old, THAT is a pedophile and even though the 16 year old is consenting, there's likely some other issues and/or manipulation going on.

      Two kids in a teenage relationship is not the same. It's just not.

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    14. VERY good points, I took the commentor's word that he was 4 to 6 years older, and they started dating when Amber was 13. I agree that 18 is an arbitrary line to draw, but I do think a teen that is 18 or 19 should not be dating someone 13, or even 14.

      Not at that age/stage of life.

      Thank you for also discussing the terms molester and pedophile.

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    15. To the one at 11:34 pm.

      18/15 is still off. It's way too weird, and any 18 year old guy who would risk it is a moron and has issues, and doesn't care about respecting the law. It's breaking a law.
      I know the difference between stat rape and molestation. I have been through both personally.

      Looking back, no 18 year old should have had anything sexual to do with me, a 14 year old. We were at completely different places in life. Most psychologists agree with this as well. That the oldest age should be 16. 16/18 is different. 15/18 is a stretch. 14/18 is not okay. Gary should have been charged, and this should have been acknowledged.

      I believe he's a huge part of the reason Amber is fucked up. Not the only reason, but a big reason.

      And by the way, the term is actually ephebophile if we're talking about attraction to minors/children who have gone through puberty. Pedophile is attraction to pre-pubescent minors/children. I just like to mention it because I do think it is an important difference.

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    16. I am sorry for what you went through, and now see why you identify with Amber so strongly, and want to be able to point to THAT event (being with Gary) as the fulcrum that upset her life. She had problems (significant ones) before Gary. Even if Amber had never gotten together with Gary, her life was already on a bad road.

      I can understand how you want to single Gary out for wrecking Amber's life, because you want that to be true in your own life. I understand that relationships can take a toll, but it seems to be that there were various other factors in your life that may have caused harm.

      Your Dad being in prison was probably a big contributor, and I am guessing your homelife in general was less than ideal(seeing as you aslso admit to being molested, which may be part of the reason you entered into a relationship with someone that was 18ish). This also explains why your anger wants to take a physical form.

      It sounds like you have been through a lot. I can understand how you would be angry about the events in your life.

      When you can recognize that there is not one person to blame for your circumstances, you can work on finding a way to make a better, happier life. It is like Farrah - she blames everyone else for everything, and so she continues in the same patterns. (Doesn't mean she won't find success in some endevors etc, but that certain cycles will repeat.).

      The moment she, or Gary, or Amber or yourself or myself admits that there is a cycle, and we are playing an active part in that cycle - right there is the beginning of change.

      Good luck to you. I hope you find healing and peace, and forgiveness in your life.

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    17. Want to add, before people pick up their pitch forks, that not everyone who gets molested is from a disadvantaged background, but the stats indicate that lower socio-economic status does correlate with higher instances of sexual abuse. Sexual abuse is not bound by social class or home environment by any means, but just as smokers tend to develop cancer more often than non-smokers, there is a connection.

      I feel horrible for anyone in those circumstances, and hope they can find a way to heal, and share their story.


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    18. Her 16 and pregnant episide sqid they had been together 3 years. She wasnt 18 when she got pregnant. I should have clarified though that in my opinion theres little difference. While she was old enough tosay yes she was not old enough to decide to have sex. If gary was younger it eould just be 2 dumb teens but he was not. But for arguments sake lets say she was 15 even then shes to young. The difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old is far different than the difference between a 20 year old and a 23 year old. Btw I meant 4 or 5 not 6. I ca n believe 3.5 years but it is still sick and still illegal

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    19. Although my use of the word molester is wrong but for for the reasons yiu said. Molesting someone is sex acts with out vaginal or anal intercourse. So yes you are correct he is a rapeist. Legally a child is considered under 13 but I lost my virginity at 14 and neither nir my 15 year old boyfried wete old enough. We were just kids and that spawned a 3 year on and off abusive relationship

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    20. Amber was not 16 in her episode though. She was 17 and I may be mistaken but I think I have heard her say on a reunion or something that she was 18 when Leah was born, or at least shortly after. The show is called 16 and pregnant but the girls are not all 16. Some of them are 15, some are 18. You can't say amber was 13 when they got together just because the show is called "16" and pregnant.

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  19. WOW YOU PEOPLE ARE HARSH ... SHES A GOOD MOM SHE JUST GOT IN TROUBLE FOR GIVIN IT TO GARY ...I BELIEVE EVERY STUPID MAN SHOULD GET KNOCKED AROUND A LITTLE!!! JUST CUZ SHE BEAT UP ON GARY DOESNT MAKE HER A BAD MOTHER ....

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    1. Nah - she is awesome - swearing in front of her child, crying, causing scenes, having temper tantrums, making everything about her all the time, choosing pills instead of taking care of her daughter, asking to see her right at bed time (Even though she had all day to go and see her), never completeling her education, sitting at home eating fast food.

      I feel sorry for you Anon@1:18. I hope you do not truly believe that 'every stupid man should get knocked around a little'.

      And I certainly hope you do not have children.

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    2. but do you notice all that was caused by gary (A supposed man)who was always egging on the situation and callin her names all you men DO need to get knocked around once in a while especially the ones who have no respect for other people than themselves ... I do have a child and another on the way just cuz commented how i did doesnt make me a bad mother ,,, im sure ur not FKIN perfect

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    3. It was not all caused by Gary. She had attitude and behavioral problems from a young age. She does react to Gary often, and he is a total jerk, but he is just one of her triggers.

      There are more productive ways to deal with men (or women) who act inappropriately. Knocking them around does not change their behavior, nor does it set a good example.

      I think you are defending Amber because you identify with her, therefore if SHE is a bad mother, then YOU are also a bad mother.

      BTW: Amber calls Gary names too, and often insults Gary before he insults her.

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    4. Does it scare anyone else that this woman has a child, with another on the way?

      I hope someone IRL calls CPS on her. She is obviously in acute mental distress.

      Sweetie, do what is best for your child and give them to someone that will be able to provide a stable life. If you truly loved your children you would want what is best for them.

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    5. You are a seriously pathetic person and have a bit of a god complex. YOU think ambers a bqd mom which means anyone that dosent is automaticaly a bad mom......are you just trolling or are you really this stupid? Get help. Before someone knocks you around for.being such a bitch

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    6. I think this person is just stupid .. if you keep goin you can tell which post is IT'S cuz IT corrects everything people say ... i think IT has nothing better to do.. prolly some old man sittin in mommas basement with his bucket of chicken waiting to bash on someone.

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    7. THERE WERE TIMES WHEN AMBER WAS A TOTAL B!TCH TO GARY DO YOU THINK HE SHOULD HAVE KNOCKED HER AROUND TOO?

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  20. People are pathetic.Amber deserves to get treated for her tooth before it gets fully infected and can kill her. All you who are bashing her;take a look in the mirror;you've all made mistakes in your life as well. NOBODY by all means is perfect. And if you think you're perfect then you are highly concetied and need to seek help! Amber's baby daddy is the most disrespectful guy I have ever seen. He's so verbally abusive and has hurt her in so many ways. Granted Amber got physially abusive,but wouldnt you to if you got treated like shit from a guy who is SUPPOSE to love you?! She's been through enough. All you people bashing her,get bent!

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    1. Neither Amber nor Gary are fit for parenthood. I fear for Leah's future (or rather, lack of future).

      It is truly sad.

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    2. Gary is a jerk - sooo true, but Amber has also made her own choice, and it is a long list of poor decisions that have brought her to where she is now. I feel totally sorry for her, and hope that she can start making better decisions (like getting her GED, working on behavior modification, over coming her addiction, becoming more positive etc).

      I agree she needs support, but she doesn't need to be enabled. When you 'allow' her behaviors because 'poor Amber has been through so much, it is not her fault!', you are NOT helping her.

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  21. HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT JENNELL FROM SEASON 2 AND YOUR CALLIN AMBER A BAD MOM???? YOU ALL NEED SOME HELP

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    1. Just because Jenelle is 'worse' does not mean that Amber is acceptable. They are both unfit to raise a child at this time (and most likely unfit to parent at any point in the future as well, but let's give them the benefit of the doubt and not take that away from them just yet).

      That is almost like saying a rapist is a better parental figure than a murderer.

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    2. "YOU ALL NEED SOME HELP" - I think you are a little misdirected. You used all capitals, and no punctuation, so you need help with grammar and writing skills. And, based on your comment, it seems that you may need mental help as well.

      (You did not even spell Jenelle correctly. Sigh.)

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    3. At least Jenelle is going to school and has a job...

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    4. i dont need proper grammar here im no longer in school and dont need to be graded on how i write a paragraph... amber wants something to do with her daughter and jennell wants to pawn her kid off with her mom while she goes and does drugs with her pathetic boyfriend... and yea jennell may be goin to school and workin but nude pics seen by all is not appropriate... i have no idea who any of you are but were all entiteled to our own opinions and you dont like what i wrote dont read it

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    5. Oh the ignorance! How can we tell if we don't like what you wrote, if we don't read it first?

      It sounds like you probably did not finish school, and that you are also the author of at least one of the other comments above.

      I am sorry for the child you have, and hope you will look into adoption as an option for both of your babies. They deserve better.

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    6. first off you have no idea who i am so dont start to judge.. i am able to say what i want and when i want whenever i want to FREEDOM OF SPEECH LOSER!!! LIKE I SAID IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT I WRITE DONT READ IT!!j and by the way im a very good parent to my child so go fuck yourself

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    7. ^ I pity these poor kids. Their mother obviously lacks self control and tact. She attacks others needlessly, and does not have the maturity to express herself without throwing out insults. (Which she earlier bashed Gary for doing.).

      I wonder if her child is currently in her care?

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    8. ^^ We don't know who you are but the example you are setting forth reflects badly. I hope you make better choices with your life, now that you have a child who utterly relies on you. You are setting an example for them, THE example, and it's not even about your grammar. It's the "FUCK ALL I DO WHAT I WANT LOL" and "I'M NOT IN SCHOOL NO MORE DON'T GOTTA LEARN STUFF NOW" that worries me.

      Keep it up and you'll be a 35 year old Grandma.

      This is more of a general statement, but I mean, we have written exams and classes that people must pass in order to simply drive a car. Why aren't there mandatory classes for basic parenting? I've chosen not to have kids because I understand and accept that I am not willing to make the enormous sacrifices to my career and lifestyle that one would need to make in order to raise a child fully and entirely. Why don't more people think about this stuff? What was so challenging about condoms and oral contraceptives?

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    9. I find it hilarious when people throw around the "freedom of speech" defense. Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from other people commenting on your stupidity honey.

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    10. I love the comments regarding whoever posted at 7:53.

      I am seriously worried for her children, as she is obviously unstable and needs intervention. Is there any way to track her IP address and get help for her child? (and have the unborn child also looked after?)

      I do not understand how she can think she is a good Mom, nor do I understand how she thinks how she has acted is appropriate. I seriously wonder what all her child has been exposed to.

      Sweetie,
      It is really obvious that you are not okay. You must know that at some level. Please think about what is best for your children. I know you need to feel needed and loved, but don't you think your children deserve better? If you post your state and city I will post information about resources in your area, so you can reach out and get the help that you so desperatly need.

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    11. Are you an old man in your 40-50s thats still lives at home with mom and watches teem mom on a regular basis? Does it get you off to bash on other peoples comments and correct there grammar everytime they forgot a period or comma? Does this turn you on? I hope your not a teacher POOR KIDS if you are. Listen go back to your basement room at mommys and watch jersey shore or something instead of telling people they dont need kids because of an opinion they put on here. Maybe even get out of mommys and find a lady friend GET A LIFE!!!!

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    12. I wrote a few of the comments you are reacting too (not all of them, just for your information). I am not a man, nor do I live in my mother's basement. I am sorry you feel like you need to be better by pretending that the person opposed to you is a loser.

      I am female, own my own house (which I bought before my husband and I got together), I have a degree, and I work in tandem with CPS.

      A lot of your reactions and statements raise red flags for me. I noticed other commentors have also expressed concerns for your well being.

      I am sorry you are so defensive about the suggestions given to you. I do feel sorry for your child - your immaturity and volatile reactions, as well as your level of violence is alarming.

      I do worry for your children. I do wish you would seek supports. If you do not feel safe doing it here, please do a google search for supports in your area. It will help you. You can choose a better life. Good luck to you.

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  22. Amber will get medical treatment, just not as fast as she would like it. And there are people, who are not criminals, that face this problem with not being able to afford to see a doctor every day. Maybe you should feel sorry for them. The jail would treat her if it became life threatening, they're not going to let her die, then just be like, "ah well". You don't know what people that are before her in line are waiting on, why should Amber cut in front of the line for something that while painful, wont kill her. It's not like she's going to get pain medication anyways. And does she really think an entire appeal of her case will happen before her swelling goes down? Suck it up Amber, you chose this life.

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    1. ^^^i understand what your sayin but my father was in there for 8 years and watched people say my chest hurts and they give them tylenol and they end up dying a couple days later from a heart attack they are careless motherfers and its costs money to get them the medical attention that they need so its not a top priority to them

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    2. To be honest, a lot of people who go to prison are repeat offenders, and I would rather they die of a heart attack, then continue to waste my tax dollars housing them. They may be missed by a few relatives, but the world would be no worse without them, so...

      It is kind of win-win! Medical treatment is expensive, and I would rather it go to a single mother of two who is working hard but barely making it than to a criminal who made bad choices.

      I know not ALL people in 'jel' are repeat offenders, but the recindivism rate is really high... I don't think they deserve better health care than the people who are out working for a living.

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    3. Anonymous@1:55, I completely agree. Frankly, I'm sick and tired of people complaining about how terrible prisons are. As far as I know, isn't that the point? Why should people like Amber who have made bad choice after bad choice be entitled to immediate (and tax-payer covered) health care when many hard working members of society can't afford a yearly check up? By no means am I saying she deserves septicemia, but her own choices have left her where she is. If she chose rehab, her tooth would have probably been fixed by now.

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  23. I'm a dental assistant, I see infection every single day and this is not something to fool around with. There have been a few patients of mine that waited to long (their choice)and ended up in the hospital and not for a short time. Infection spreads fast. Amber was the one who begged for prison time rather than treatment so in this case, she can't expect that she'll receive prompt treatment just because she's in pain. If she would have chosen treatment, perhaps the outcome would be different.

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    1. She did choose treatment. The drug court program didn't help her, it wasn't the kind of help she needed. She was set up to fail. She tried but she knew it wasn't working and hoped that choosing prison would allow her to quit cold turkey and better herself.

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    2. Others given the same opportunity as Amber made it work. She was an active part in the failure of the drug court. She was asked time and time again if she was seeking the care (groupa nd invidual) that she was suppose to set up for herself - SHE DID NOT FOLLOW THROUGH. It is no one's fault but her own.

      Amber is not a victim. There are victims out there, but Amber is truly the author of her circumstance.

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    3. What you saw on Teen Mom was a different rehab. The one that she did most recently was a court drug rehab program. Everyone is different and requires different treatment.

      She didn't succeed with that program and chose prison instead with the same intentions of getting better.

      No one said that she was a victim. However it is unfair to say that she didn't choose treatment when in fact she did. It wasn't sufficient and she wasn't able to kick her habit that way. She did what she thought was best in her particular situation.

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    4. I think there are two point - 1 - she could have avioded drug court etc if she had been more successful in her first treatment program, which she ditched and did the bare minimum for. 2 - at any point she could have asked for more help. She did not truly pick treatment, she picked what she thought would be easiest for her (life at her Grandparents). If she had truly wanted to 'get better' the people at S2S would have been able to tell when they interviewed her.

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    5. I think her first treatment failed because one: it was a bullshit celebrity rehab/ vacation destination that MTV paid for and filmed.

      I don't really blame her for doing the minimum honestly, she was sober and she missed her daughter. Months away from your child... I can't even imagine that.

      When she came home I think it's pretty obvious that all the old problems that she didn't have in California were still at home waiting for her and she didn't know how to handle it and just fell right back into her old ways.

      On one hand, I say as a parent she should have gotten her shit together and did the right things no matter how stressful it was. And on the other as someone who has suffered from both addiction and anxiety... I understand how ridiculously hard it can be. And how hard it is to climb out of a very dark place. (luckily my addiction problem was done and over with by the time I had kids) It's hard to imagine what that would have been like with a child...

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    6. But she did the minimum when she got home - even though they kept asking her to seek out group therapy and other sessions, she made excuses as to why she couldn't/didn't.

      Amber often chose not to see Leah, and then(for example) expected to see her at bedtime, which would only get Leah all excited etc.

      We also see how Amber would say she was going to take Leah, but then wouldn't because other things came along - things that Leah could have come with her on, or things that could have been postponed until later.

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    7. Don't judge by what is seen on the show. A simple misunderstanding is often made to look a lot worse than it is. The show makes things look a certain way.

      Example: There was an episode where she was putting up Christmas decorations- saying she wished Leah could be there to put them up with her. They made it look like Leah wasn't with her that day. When if fact Leah was there and did help with decorations before Gary came to get her. That part wasn't shown. But there are plenty of photos online of that particular day.

      Amber has a bad view of herself. She believes that she is a bad person and can't ever get better. And when she does muster up the confidence to say that she is going to change and get better, there are people around her ready to drag her down.

      I really feel for her. It's hard to get better when the entire country is telling you that you are shit. And when your town/state is constantly publishing things saying how embarrassed they are by you. Just for a second imagine what that would feel like.

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    8. I agree that change is slow or non-existant when someone feels threatened. They need a safe environment where they feel encouraged and supported. Where they don't have to be perfect, but they do have to make progress.

      That said, some people can be given all the supports in the world, but they just can't change. Some professionals believe someone has to hit rock bottom before they will change. I don't believe that, but I do believe that as long as someone is enabling them, and as long as they are not taking responsibility for their actions (not always blaming others for their problems), that change is not possible.

      I believe wholeheartedly that Amber can change, and she is largely a product of her environment. But I also believe she needs to understand that she needs to be accountable for her own choices and reactions.

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  24. Poor girl.. i hope she gets what she needs no one needs to suffer like that. And all of you talkin bad about her please note your not perfect and never will be.. shes had her moments but what person doesnt.. i believe gary shouldnt be so mean to her and put her through all of the bad situations he has so far..yea its a bad spot for Leah but there have been worse situations and if it was so bad amber wouldve lost her daughter long ago... but she didnt and now shes doin her time and getting herself back together.. keep it up amber im prayin for you

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    1. If Amber's addiction had been reported, she would have lost her daughter LONG before she did. (Or if her mental state had been reported.).

      The fact is that CPS does not often intervene until it is almost too late. CPS should have been coaching Amber and Gary to make better choices from the beginning of the pregnancy (before Leah was born), as it was obvious at that point that neither Amber nor Gary were 'ready' for parenthood.

      We need to be more responcible as a society about who (and when) and how children are born.

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  25. I really feel bad for Amber, My heart goes out to her! I don't think Jail is the answer for her problems. Young people do stupid things all the time, she is only being made an example of because of her fame! All she needs is professional help and family & friends that truly care about her and her well being!!! I say let her out... Let her go to a Doctor!!! FREE AMBER!!!

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  26. GET AMBER A DOCTOR PEOPLE!!! I agree set her FREE... Janelle Evans is a far worse mother and human than Amber! Why is Janelle getting away with everything crimanally wrong that she does!!! Amber is just a Bipolar who needs help and real support! Gary is a FATASS that made her crazy! I would have slapped his sorry ass too!

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    1. Jenelle is bipolar as well, she doesn't need help and real support? And since Gary has a weight problem, she should abuse him? Get a clue.

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    2. I hope you don't have children, as you are obviously an unfit parent. You need to seek help for your anger issues, and well as your penchant for hitting people and swearing. You obviously have a lot of mental issues.

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  27. ^^I TOTALLY LOVE WHAT YOU JUST SAID NO ONE ELSE SEEMS TO GET IT... WELL SAID MY FRIEND.

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  28. FREE AMBER LOCK UP JANELLE

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  29. I agree Gary is a ass he is basking in this fame! Yeah a Fame Whore!!! Amber is not a bad person she just has some issues to work out! Janelle is flat out AWFUL a real druggy criminal why isnt she locked up? I with you all FREE AMBER PORTWOOD! and please someone MTV...anybody get her a dentist damn!

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  30. Dr Drew .................Free Amber!!! HELP HER

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  31. It is so easy for people to judge and I guess harder for some reason to show mercy and compassion. I really feel bad for her. Teeth pain is awful. In addition to the pain, it affects your sleep. blood pressure, pulse and other things.

    I know she has made mistakes. But I feel for her. She had awful role models. She needs counseling to learn how better to effectively deal with her issues. Her time would have served her better by in patient intensive counseling. I honestly don't feel like jail is the right place for her.

    She shouldn't have hit Gary. Yes maybe she should have had supervised visits with Leah. But I honestly think deep inside she is hurting and she needs help!

    I hope they do release her though it is unlikely. I had an exboyfriend that had a kidney stone lodge in his ureter and was in jail. But he was only there a month. He needed emergency surgery right as he was released and could have died. It broke my heart.

    She should get medical care there. At the very least lance it and drain it and start anti biotics. She should be on percocet or something but I doubt they would do that.

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  32. Amber made her choices, thats exacly why she is were she is!! No drug attic derserves to have a child!! Shes were she belongs!!shes pshyco! I hope for her sake that when she gets out she stays clean...n seeks some mental help ...n changes for her daughter!!

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    1. It's even worse when an alcoholic basement has a kid!

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    2. For one thing it is drug ADDICT not attic. An attic is in the top of your house. It is psycho not pshyco. And full sentences are still in style. Please stay in school or go back. You need some literacy help forget about Amber you have your own issues. ;)

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    3. ^There you go again... your the alcoholic basement LOL the alcoholic that lives in mommys basement. ANONOYMOUS 7:35 GO TO THE BAR OR SOMETHING YOU HAVE A LOT OF TIME ON YOUR HANDS

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    4. The comment above was not mine (I responded to you earlier). There are a few of us that are directing comments to you. I do not know who the others are, but I have responded to you before. I doubt that anyone who has commented towards you lives in a basement. And your answer for them is to "go to the bar"?

      That is a very unhealthy response. Scary, even.

      BTW - I can't speak for the others that have made comments towards you, but I myself do not drink alcohol. (I am not religous or anything, I just don't like the taste.).

      Your response makes me wonder if that is how you handle things?

      Please get the help you so desperatly need. I fear for the safety and wellbeing of you child(ren).

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  33. i hope she gets help amber and gray shouldnt ever be together it doesnt work it never will so yea they should both move on they just fight and so thats not healthy for leah at all and yes amber needs to get more help but she should not be in jail thats just wrong and i think she should get leah back she is a good mother and loves her daughter and as for gray he shouldnt have her he just like using leah to hurt amber thats just wrong maybe leah should stay with other family until amber sorts her stuff out and gets better and so on

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    1. How is she a good mother? By feeding her fast food all the time? By being so stoned out on pills that she can't even open her eyes? By having no control over her emotions?

      Leah needs a forever home, and there is no telling when (or if) Amber will ever be 'better'.

      Amber has significant issues which impede her from being any sort of 'good' mother.

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    2. Or remember that guy she brought home that had just been released from prison or whatever yet Amber let him change Leah's diaper?

      I wonder what else Leah was exposed to? I know Amber freaked out a lot, which would cause anxiety...

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  34. FREE AMBER <3 and she is a good mother!!!

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  35. Jail probably isn't the best place for Amber - but Amber could be given all the support in the world, and I believe she would still fail, because she still thinks she is the victim.

    S2S ministries had her professionally evaluated, and then would not take her into their program because they knew that they would not be able to help her. Why? Because of her attitude and mentality.

    When Amber was given the choice to find her own follow up programs she failed. Amber, at any time in drug court, could have said that she needed more supports and councilling etc, but she didn't. She was the one that begged to be released to her Grandparent's house.

    Jail may offer Amber the environment she needs to actually change herself and her life.

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    1. I disagree Jail is not a positive enviroment! Amber has mental issues she is not a criminal!

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    2. How is amber "not a criminal"?!? She beat up Gary in front of Leah, she got caught with pills that weren't hers, she failed drug tests, she didn't fulfill court-ordered stipulations of drug court...all these things are illegal. Which makes them crimes. Which means she IS a criminal. Just because you believe she is a good person doesn't mean that the crimes she has committed disappear. smh...

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  36. All the people saying "free Amber" makes me LOL!! You don't get a free pass out of jail because you have an ouchie. Didn't work in monopoly, doesn't work in real life. Dr. Drew didn't send Amber to time out to teach her a lesson, the government tried everything to help her, and she didn't want it, now she has to face the consequences of those choices. Which INCLUDES staying in jail when you don't feel well. She's not the first prisoner to get sick, and if she wasn't on Teen Mom, no one would give a shit that as a violent criminal she's not getting whatever she wants whenever she wants it. I fear for the future if any of these comments are from people a) being serious or b) over 14.

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    1. ^^^^^^^ LOVE this comment! I actually think that several of the "free Amber" comments come from the same individual.

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    2. If you guys are so against Amber then why do you come on to this page and get so defensive? If she doesnt matter to you, shouldnt you be looking for other things on the internet ? Umm i think everyone on here against her has anger issues themselves and have nothing better to do than talk shit just to get a feel of being billy bad ass because no one knows who you are .. if it doesnt matter than move on with your day ... yes your entitled to you own opinion but if your gonna be so negative to everyone on here that feels for her then you have your own issues.. Get a punching bag or do kick boxing to release your anger issues it help i promise

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    3. What part of my post indicated that I was angry at all? I was replying the the multiple comments saying "free Amber" that were baseless, and I compared them to Amber's wish to be released for her illness, which is ridiculous. That isn't anger, that's common sense. Don't tell me not to judge others when you just did the same to me.

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    4. WOW DIDNT JUST SAY "YOU" I SAID ALL THE HATERS...YOU DO NEED A PUNCHING BAG LADY MAN WHATEVER THE HELL YOU ARE.. QUIT BEING SO NEGATIVE!! YOUR ONLY TALKIN ALL YOUR SHIT CUZ NO ONES RIGHT THERE TO PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE...YOU MAY BE WELL EDUCATED AND IF THATS THE CASE PUT YOUR 2 SENCE IN WHERE ITS WANTED.. DEF NOT WANTED HERE..YOUR MAKIN A BUNCH OF ENEMIES ON HERE AND ITS PEOPLE FREELY EXPRESSING THERE OPINION QUIT BEIN A HATER AND CALLIN EVERYONE A BAD MOM.. AND YOU PROLLY HAVE NO KIDS BECAUSE OF THE WAY YOU ARE.. I WOULDNT WANT THAT PRODUCING EITHER...

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    5. Yes, clearly out of the two of us, I'm the angry one.

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    6. Geeze im glad you finally see it!

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    7. you know what is funny? That cap locks lady is treating at least two of us like we are only one person!

      I don't think Anon@ 4:03 and 11:50 was out of line, or a hater. Why isn't she allowed to express her opinion? I, quite frankly, like her point of view, and agree with her!

      I have espressed before that I am very concerned for the girl that keeps wanting to resort to violence. I am guessing she came from a disadvantaged background and does not know any better. It is clearly why she identifies with Amber, and I am wondering if she too was reported, thus why this is so close to her heart.

      Anan@3:49 - I love the tongue in cheek here, and I am sorry that ANGRYMAMA can not appreciate it, lol. Her use of all caps is funny, yet alarming.

      Again, ANGRYMAMA, please go and get the help you need. I know it is hard to take responsibility and own your behaviors, but you will be happier in the end.

      Also, it seems to me that Anon@3:49 etc is not the one producing enemies on this site. I hope you do not think of me as an enemy just because I am deeply concerned for you and your child, but it seems to me like Anon and I agree that your behavior and conduct is unbecoming of a mother. I believe that there are at LEAST two of us that feel you need some serious intervention.

      I haven't seen anyone come to support your point of view, whereas there have been a few people that have comments about their concerns for you.

      Just a thought.

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  37. Her family could get a lawyer and pled to get her a early release, for time served, with the conditions that she is commited to a to rehabilitation facility! I doubt she will have to serve her full sentance! Further more she is far from criminal!!! As a tax payer, paying to keep crimanal's up in the prison system, Amber being locked up is ridiculous! I don't care if it is what she asked for, their are far worse people in this world that should be occupying the space in a cell. early release is not impossible.Oh well she was on Teen Mom and that's why people do give a shit!!! Being mentally sick does not make her a criminal, abusing anti depressants does not make her a crack head like some of you are insinuating. I hope somthing happens in her favor and she is set FREE so to speak!

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    1. "get her a early release, for time served, with the conditions that she is commited to a to rehabilitation facility"

      She already got this deal, but she was unable to keep her end of the bargain, which is why she ended up in jail.

      They do offer more mental health help in jail, as well as other programs and opporunities, then she would get 'on the outside', so really jail is a win-win for her. It is probably the best option for her at this point. Where else would she actually be able to complete her GED (IF she chooses to) etc.

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    2. What constitutes a criminal? I thought it was someone who broke the law, like, oh I don't know, hitting someone (assault and battery), or ABUSING prescription pills (possesion of a controlled substance without a prescription).
      I must have been wrong.....

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  38. BTW Janelle is no longer in school! Also she admits openly to smoking pot and promote's her lame boyfriends pipe's as if they are really for tobacco!!! REALLY??? Now if that isn't criminal. Thank God her mother has Jace!

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    1. Her mother, Barbara, is really not that great either. And just because Jenelle sucks does not mean that Amber is any better.

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    2. She is actually going to school in October and frequently denies smoking pot - claiming that she has been sober for 8+ months now. https://twitter.com/PBandJenelley_1/status/237659741877317632

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  39. GARY why don't you do something beside's eat and FREE AMBER!!! You claim she is the love of your life! Do something right for leah besides showcase her like a trophy on twitter!!! Get a LAWYER and help AMBER!!!

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    1. Why are you so deseperate for Amber to be released?
      Why is this so personal for you?

      Do you relate strongly to Amber?

      And maybe Leah is better off without Amber's swearing and drama.

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  40. Her Mom or Brother could request a legal injunction for stewardshiper and that would be better than jail! It worked for Britney Spears!

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    1. Do you not get that this already happened and her grandparents took responcibility for her, but she still could not keep the conditions? She was very aware that failure would mean a lengthy prison sentence.

      Jail might be her best option right now. She just can't get it together on the outside, perhaps she is where she needs to be.

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  41. Sure amber needs treated for her tooth, but she should have thought about the choices she was maken to get her were she is! Shes a sorry excuse for a mother, im glad cps stepped in. A child belongs with there mother, but when you are the kind of mother amber calles herself, then you dont deserve a child! Shes exactly were she needs to be! Shes pathetic!

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  42. does everyone seem to forget that amber CHOSE to do this 5 year sentence instead of the drug program? why would you feel sorry for someone to literally did this to themselves lol. sure, having an abscessed tooth must suck, but much worse things have happened. she's not about to die. stop being such drama queens over it.

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  43. I find it amusing how many people are saying she shouldn't be in jail because she isn't a criminal. Last I knew, a criminal was someone who commits crimes, such as battery or illegal drug use.

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  44. Hey did you guys notice this girl isnt the only one defending Amber? yea theres some things that she said that arent acceptable and are very outrageous but it doesnt mean she needs help or needs her children taken away.

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    1. You don't think her constant talk about people needing to be knocked around or hit is alarming? I do!

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  45. I think amber should do her time. It just might make her a better person and teach her a lesson. Just because your mouth hurts doesnt mean you should get out of jail sooner youll get the medical treatment you need all in good time.

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  46. Most of these comments are ludicrous.

    Amber chose this sentence.

    Also, Amber was found guilty of assaulting Gary and was also holding prescription drugs on her, without a prescription. Meaning, she was using them illegally. For those of you who seem to be unclear of what makes a criminal those things constitute as breaking the law which just so happens to make her a criminal.

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    1. Your a ludicrous dumbass!!!

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    3. Anon@4:16

      I don't want the author of that comment to leave - I agree with her. Amber is guilty of breaking criminal laws, which makes her a criminal. She was given an option to avoid jail time, she failed (despite having options). She knew the consequences, and she asked for them.

      I don't think the author is a loser. It sounds to me like she is intelligent, and has made valid points. She has not attacked anyone, or called them names needlessly.

      Just because she doesn't agree with you does not make her a loser. I think she probably has things together, and is making a positive difference in the world somewhere.

      I am sorry for you. I honestly hope you will reflect on what you have posted here, and what others have posted, and you will take steps to find a better path for yourself.

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    4. Gary should be locked up too he was just as abusive verbally and mentally! Gary should not have custody eiather, he uses Leah against Amber! If she is she is unfit and as serious problems but I disagree that she is a criminal, a criminal is someone who is a danger to others! Yes she hit Gary and no its not ok to hit, but I don't think she is a threat to society.I think tou should would be better off being committed somewhere by a doctor not of her own accord.

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    5. She got into a car accident, and may have been on pills at the time. Therefore, she is a threat to the safety of the general public.

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    6. I don't think she ever got into a car accident....

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    7. She rear ended someone that was pulling into his driveway, do a simple google search, and you will be able to read up on it.

      It happened in Dec of 2011.

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  47. Maybe this is something Amber is pulling to get pain pills. Drug addicts are desperate people. If she wanted immediate access to medical care she should not have chosen "GEL".

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    1. if you have a abscess tooth youll eventually get a huge lump on the side of your face does it show any pics anywhere of her.. if shes faking just to get pills youll def know by pics.. lol my friend has one right now and has another head on his face lol you have to take antibiotics for damn near 2 weeks before they can do anything

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  48. Omg......wtf is wrong with you people.......cqlling people.bad moms for swear online and thinking that assholes deserve whats coming to them? You might as well say I abuse my toodler for spanking her butt when she misbehaves. Goddamn. I hope that the judgey fuckers on here arent like this in real life. And if you are I hope you dont have kids to raise just like you......oh wait...oh no....i made some typos. I must be horridly uneducated and undeserveing of motherhood

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    1. Some people do believe that spanking is abuse (it is a form of assault).

      There is a significant movement to ban spanking.

      Just a thought.

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    2. People are too politically correct nowadays. punishments should be age appropriate of course. Spanking an infant of course would be abuse. However when I child is older and knows better spanking is an acceptable form of punishment in my book. It taught me as a child.

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    3. you mean there is a significant bratty child movement??? A non spanking parent is doing wrong by their child. That child will not behave. plain and simple. People are not bad or abusive for thinking differently than you. I would rather go to jail for hitting my child than have her go to jail because I didn't!!!!!

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    4. There are better and more effective ways to discipline a child. That being said, I am actually pro-spanking, but in very reserved circumstances.

      A point made earlier tonight is: if a child was severely misbehaving at the park, and it wasn't your child, but you spanked them, it would be seen as assault. So why isn't is assault when we hit our own children.

      There is substancial proof that spanking can cause more harm than good, and that spanking has no more effect on a child than other parenting techniques and methods. Do a google search and read some of it - it is interesting.

      Again, I am pro-spanking, but I gotta admit, the other side has a lot of very, very convincing arguements!

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    5. I practice time outs with my toddler, but sometimes he needs a smack on the butt. Especially when he is trying to do something dangerous. I want him to remember that punishment. I personally know that I would never be disrespectful towards my parents even now as an adult. Because I know I would have been back handed if I ever stepped that far out of line. I don't look at my childhood as abusive or unhappy in any way either.

      It's a fine line for sure. And about the stranger thing. I don't feel that it's anyone's job to discipline my child but mine. Unless of course its in school or daycare and then I expect them to use time outs etc.

      For a complete stranger to walk up and discipline my child would be outrageous and crazy. I feel the same way about my pets. I don't expect my friends or visitors to discipline my animals. No matter what they do. That is my job, not theirs. I'm very particular about this. As are most people I believe.

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    6. "Dr. Fletcher's editorial is based on a recent medical study that looks at 20 years worth of research which says spanking is ineffective. The study also states those who are spanked as children often experience behavioural problems as adults, including depression, drug use, and general psychological maladjustment.

      Dr. Fletcher writes, "While section 43 stands, it is a constant excuse for parents to cling to an ineffective method of child discipline when better approaches are available. It is time for Canada to remove this anachronistic excuse for poor parenting from the statute book."

      http://www.globalnews.ca/sports/health/cmaj+editorial+suggests+spanking+should+be+banned/6442709446/story.html

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  49. The woman on here calling people out for there opinions needs to shut up! Your on her saying that many of these people who have commented dont deserve to have kids!!! Your just a bitter bitch and you should get a life really!

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    1. She pathetic. Shes commented several times to make it look like someones backing her up but its just her being a moron. I was called disturbedfor believeing gary deserved to get punch in the head. Now I just hope someone beats the hell out of her so she'll learn her lesson. "oh you obviously have nothing better to do than attack people online" bitch wtf do you think you're doing!

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    2. i was told i need cps called on me because i say f**K and have bad grammar.. she does need to go away ..

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    3. Actually, I think it was more to do with your view on hitting people, and the anger you expressed.

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  50. I guess she is pro Gary! I mean did she not watch the ist season where he found it more importain to buy a video game system over things the baby was going to need!!! Or this most recent season where he promised Amber they would celebrate leahs birthday together and then he gets mad and does it without Amber and sends her pictures to upset her! Or how he wouldn't help her with the baby so she could study for the GED, how about when he would not let her use his car!!! BTW I think that the insulting of the peoples comments on her are by a person who has no children and just like to put 2 cents in to be a major BITCH... Nobody said Amber was perfect but she sure got dealt a fowl hand in life and it is so very sad that she is where she is!

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    1. I am not pro-Gary. There is no doubt that he did things wrong. But Amber still has attitude, behavioral, and substance abuse problems (regardless of Gary) and, therefore, is not a fit parent.

      She has had fights with other people. She tried to commit suicide (what if Leah had been there?).

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  51. ^well said.. i think the girl with the insults even said she didnt have kids..

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    1. There are at least two of us, and I know she admitted to not having children, it does not mean that I don't.

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  52. Thank You, 3:13 I just dont see the point of insulting peoples comment's I read all these comments on here and was shocked! I don't see anything wrong with fans showing sympathy towards amber! Of course people are going to be touched by her story it's sad. I think most of the fans want to see her do well! It's a shame that she is in the situation she is in. Also I don't see any point in insulting her or anyone!

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    1. But it okay to bash Jenelle, right?

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  53. Amber will only serve 2 years tops! I hope when she get out she has more positive persons in her life then the negative persons on here bashing her! Just saying :) Don't judge someone until you have walked a mile in their shoes. I am praying for her and I hope she feels better soon-(medical attension)

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    1. There is a difference between bashing, and declaring Amber an unfit parent.

      Amber is an unfit parent.

      Sometimes a negative assessment is a reflection of reality. Sometimes a person is not able to parent their child.

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  54. I wonder if ANGRYMAMA encourages her child to hit other little ones that will not share their toys?

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  55. Was it ANGRYMAMA's Dad that went to jail for 8 years?

    That would explain a lot.

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  56. I see a angry mom, a opinionated person, and the must have the last word person! To Amber's brother Shawn, and Mom good luck with whatever you can do to help whether it be an appeal or not.I hope Amber get's to feeling better soon!

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  57. the woman claiming shes from CPS i do believe you need to take a second look at your comments. To me you sound very unprofessional and need to lose your job.. if you are seriously from cps i believe you would not put people down for there opinions which there entitled to have.. i believe this girl is getting defensive because shes being put down for her opinions when shes not the only one defending Amber.. and just cuz these people are defending amber doesnt make them bad mothers people make mistakes and have problems. Im sure your not perfect yourself! give this girl a break JESUS!!!

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  58. Well said 12:18 I doubt she is with CPS or any other Dept of social services! If so her post would indicate she is not doing her JOB anyway she is online putting ppl down!

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  59. Amber has been an abscess on society and Gary's fat ass for far long enough. Gary is a saint compared to her and can do no wrong. That poor young man. Let that ulgy rotten toothed bitch shit in prison for a while. She is the nastiest hog faced bitch I have ever seen. Maybe if she gargels with some of the guards semen her tooth will stop hurting. Lord knows its not helping her face at all.

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